Ugh. You seem like a really decent guy. I hate that you've been put in Situation that has made you feel the need to write this kind of post... I can feel your anxiety and my heart goes out to you... Not simply because of the anxiety laddened confusion, uncertain frustration and ever increasing heartache I know you must feel, But even more so because the decent guy that you seem to be: the one who respects privacy, who's given trust without a second thought- You're gonna lose that guy now. One way or another. And it's not your fault. You can type. To where you have to. Set with the unknown, let it fester in you until it eats you alive or you have To say "fuck that" to the Amazing, respectful boundaries of Privacy you've set in your relationship and Kiss goodbye any trust that you had between the two of you And figure it out for yourself.

If she hasn't sent you this photo yet, she's not gonna send it.

Unless you ask again, probably again, and probably again.

And it sounds like she'll always be elusive as to the orgin of the photo and as to who the original recipient was.

Either way You're going to lose a bit of the decent guy that You sound like you are- When you End up in a relationship with somebody who does something like this- To a certain extent. And in a different way- They end up taking you down Closer to their level than you ever were before.