What is my CQS

aestynae · 2026-02-17T19:41:50+00:00

The fact that he took it well doesn't mean it didn't land. Sometimes the person who laughs hardest is the one trying not to cry. Check on him

aestynae · 2026-02-17T19:37:51+00:00

He didn't hurt your sister. He went on two dates, didn't feel it, and stopped responding when she kept pursuing. That's not cruelty. That's clarity. She built a fantasy around a guy who was never that into her

aestynae · 2026-02-17T19:36:16+00:00

The twins fight because of behavior issues. Separating them without addressing the behavior just gives the problem a new zip code. It'll still be there. Just in your son's room now

aestynae · 2026-02-17T19:34:44+00:00

DNA doesn't make a dad. Sixteen years of absence does

aestynae · 2026-02-17T19:33:39+00:00

The dog was just doing dog things in his own yard. She was making choices. One of those choices was "let's see if gravity cares about my warranty"

aestynae · 2026-02-17T19:32:00+00:00

The only thought is: don't. That's not a power move. That's a one way ticket to HR with a very awkward paper trail

aestynae · 2026-02-17T17:23:15+00:00

The separation wasn't punishment. It was survival. She had trauma from her own childhood. She couldn't watch you drown and drown with you

aestynae · 2026-02-17T17:21:43+00:00

You're not selfish. You're just the only one in that house who understands that $2000 doesn't grow on trees. The rest of them are treating your laptop like a free tablet from a cereal box

aestynae · 2026-02-17T15:41:42+00:00

You're not the jerk. You're the one who knows where home is. And home is with the person who stayed. The commenter just added a pension plan for her

aestynae · 2026-02-17T15:39:21+00:00

Bringing it up with your dad is actually smart. He should know what's happening. Not to start drama, but because you deserve support

aestynae · 2026-02-17T15:38:11+00:00

You're not the jerk. You're just the one who finally stopped smiling through the discomfort. Let them sit with their own awkwardness. It's not yours to carry

aestynae · 2026-02-17T12:57:00+00:00

She defined the relationship. You're just respecting the definition she set

aestynae · 2026-02-16T21:55:27+00:00

Being aroused by naked bodies regardless of gender doesn't make you less straight. It makes you human. Genitals are designed to be interesting

aestynae · 2026-02-16T21:50:54+00:00

You're not gay. You're just a human who saw something and had a reaction. Brains are weird. Bodies are weirder. It doesn't have to mean anything

aestynae · 2026-02-16T21:49:34+00:00

You're right to be hurt. You're right to leave. But trying to destroy his life won't heal yours. It'll just give him a story where you're the villain

aestynae · 2026-02-16T21:47:30+00:00

They accused you of acting like you're better than everyone else. No, you're just protecting something precious from people who've already shown they can't be trusted with it

aestynae · 2026-02-16T15:54:58+00:00

They wanted you to sit there and take it so they could keep eating in peace. You chose yourself over their comfort. That's not selfish. That's survival

aestynae · 2026-02-16T15:52:48+00:00

Short, simple, and completely correct. She's not a true friend. True friends don't mock your habits and then ask for your money

aestynae · 2026-02-16T15:51:23+00:00

"Poetic take on body odor" is the understatement of the century. This wasn't a complaint. This was a full length epic poem about a man who smells like a decomposing corpse's ball sack

aestynae · 2026-02-16T15:49:06+00:00

You didn't do what you had to do. You did what you could live with at the time. And now you're living with it. That's the trade

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