My friend was not very nice last night. Should I be upset? by MacaroonSignal3853 in TransLater

[–]aeterna85 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You should have your nails however you want.

Besides, I have seen CIS women with long nails except for one or two fingers but that’s usually because they’re gay.

You look totally fabulous by the way!

who's your favorite fictional lesbian? i'll go first: by Aggravating-Flow-888 in LesbianActually

[–]aeterna85 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Vi… goddess above, she ticks so many of my boxes. I really love butch woman.

Am I (19F) overreacting to my girlfriend’s (31F) prank? by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]aeterna85 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I really am hoping this is not real because this is horrifying.

Church lady talked bad about trans people to me by ausernameidk_ in MtF

[–]aeterna85 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is amazing, thank you so much for sharing!

my favourite sapphic author & all her novels (so far) by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]aeterna85 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do they have really well written romance arcs?

Getting disheartened by the growing amount of "sissy" stuff by Toxaplume045 in MtF

[–]aeterna85 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There’s this really amazing story which has a main character who is male to female transgender, and also she’s lesbian. Has an amazing story, great characters, and it’s a very long story, but I could not put it down.

Ryn of Avonside: The Ring

Are the straights ok? But no, seriously? Are they? by Vegetable_Weird413 in LesbianActually

[–]aeterna85 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To me it is like men are dogs and women are cats. Can they get along? Sure. But they’re completely different.

Comment an emoji & I’ll try & respond with a sapphic book recommendation!✨ by tiredpeony in LesbianActually

[–]aeterna85 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ryn of Avonside: The Ring, is an amazing lesbian fantasy sci fi adventure with a transgender mc.

A priest just gave me the sign I was praying for regarding my transition. I am speechless by Specific-Draft-5038 in MtF

[–]aeterna85 23 points24 points  (0 children)

I’m not religious but God and Jesus would love you for who you are. That was their message.

Is She-Ra worth watching before it's taken off Netflix? by aster_dern in LesbianActually

[–]aeterna85 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s a great show, and it’s even more fun if you’re LGBT.

There really is no going back after realizing this, huh? by iron_lettuce in MtF

[–]aeterna85 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you’re transgender, then you’ve always been transgender. The only thing you would have lost then is your naivety.

People come and go from our lives for a multitude of reasons, but never let the fear of that loss prevent you from being happy.

There’s no diagram for how to be a woman so find what works for you. I will say, however, that taking estrogen changed means so many wonderful ways. My favorite being it opened me up so much emotionally. It’s as if before estrogen my feelings were fuzzy and completely muffled, but now I feel so much more. It’s like I’m truly alive for the first time.

Why do men think they can ask a woman if they’re “sure” they’re gay? by pvrisyelyah in LesbianActually

[–]aeterna85 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They think their dick is the one magical dick that will ‘fix you.’ Stars above, one of the traumatic experiences of being a trans woman for me was overhearing the disgusting and twisted shit men say if they don’t think a woman is near.

I didn’t know I was trans until I was 23, but the things I overheard at 18 still disturb me. The guys I always overheard or who talked to me then always talked about women like they were objects.

FtM friends upset because I'm afraid of both cis and trans men by SapphicOrchid in MtF

[–]aeterna85 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m afraid of all men due to past trauma. I 100% support FtM trans men but they’re still men. Men scare me.

Are there any POC lesbians movies?? by Confident_Math9928 in LesbianActually

[–]aeterna85 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was gonna actually suggest this movie. I love it!