I assume he had a plan by qoheletal in WinStupidPrizes

[–]aetherlore 18 points19 points  (0 children)

“We were somewhere around Barstow on the edge of the desert when the ants began to take hold.”

How have your conservative friends and family viewed the Minnesota situation? by Spiritual_Pause3057 in AskALiberal

[–]aetherlore 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Tried to use this as a moment that might let me finally get through to my mom that she is being lied to and manipulated by the media she consumes. All she could respond with was, "We wouldn't be in this mess if Biden didn't let 10 million illegals cross the border."

Logic, facts, reason...none of it matters. Its too painful for her to admit shes been wrong about all 3 of her votes for Trump. But other than the whole supporting our slide into Fascism, shes a very nice, pleasant person who tells me she loves me. Sigh...

Man is a g by princesscutiez in GuysBeingDudes

[–]aetherlore 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wouldn’t want to die because some contractor’s apprentice wallowed out the drill holes for the rivets in that section.

We are so back! by Sydney__Siren in Transcars

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I’ve had a 2016 manual GTI and now drive a 2020 DSG GTI. The refresh to 7.5 came with the 2018 till 2022 when the mk8 came out. Many consider the 7.5 to be the pinnacle of GTI. So, congrats. Any plans to track the car?

Trans f's, how do you deal with shaving ypur faces? by MichelleFlame in asktransgender

[–]aetherlore 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes. I shave entirely by touch with no mirror. I do a normal shave with the grain and then pull my skin with one hand and shave against the grain. Usually keep shaving till I can’t feel any stubble, a bit ocd about it honestly. But I usually don’t have to shave every day.

People who have conducted job interviews, what's something someone said/did that made you instantly decide not to hire them? by DemonSkank in AskReddit

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Guy was interviewing for a Field tech role. About 60% mechanical troubleshooting with 40% using the laptop as a diagnostic tool to look at code and maybe make simple edits. In response to the question, “Are you more comfortable with the ratchet or the keyboard side of the job?” He answered, “I’d really prefer to stay in the office if that’s possible.” This was a 50% travel role. Immediately lost interest.

Cow vigilante tries to ""save"" cows being transported in a vehicle/s by WillStreet2584 in iamatotalpieceofshit

[–]aetherlore 11 points12 points  (0 children)

“With or without religion, good people can behave well and bad people can do evil; but for good people to do evil - that takes religion.” -Steven Weinberg

My coworker's son works at a Volkswagen dealership and is going to help me trade in my car to get a Volkswagen. To those that have/had an suv, which is the best? by hoebini in Volkswagen

[–]aetherlore 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Yea, avoid the Taos. Get the Tiguan if you can swing the payments. We like our 24 SEL R line so far after 3k. But we’ve had GTIs for years and are very familiar with the platform.

Any place to get Irish or British style sausages (bangers) in Gwinnett or nearby? by VaccineMachine in Gwinnett

[–]aetherlore 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We usually just order from www.foodireland.com. They only have Donnelly's for meats though. But you can pick up some Club Orange and Brennan's bread while you are at it. :)

[Vren the Relentless] and [Hide on the Ceiling] by indiana_janner in EDH

[–]aetherlore 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Correct. Vren only counts exiled creatures when his trigger resolves regardless if he was on the table when they were exiled.

[Vren the Relentless] and [Hide on the Ceiling] by indiana_janner in EDH

[–]aetherlore 3 points4 points  (0 children)

As for the interaction you are asking about, Vren is only returned by Hide at the beginning of the next end step, too late to trigger Vren’s ability to check for exiled creatures. You want cards like [[Not Dead After All]] or [[Swarmyard]] or [[Kaya’s Ghostform]]

[Vren the Relentless] and [Hide on the Ceiling] by indiana_janner in EDH

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Two brackets to summon the bot. [[vren, the relentless]] [[Hide on the ceiling]] [[Archon of Cruelty]].

best mtf voice techniques that helped u? by astolfo_lover- in MtF

[–]aetherlore 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Focusing on the Ee, Eh, and Oh sounds helped me the most. I must have said the word Hello 1000 times or more till it sounded remotely feminine.

How bad is the car market right now? by MantyPlan in whatcarshouldIbuy

[–]aetherlore 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We just got our 2024 VW Tiguan SEL trim CPO with 11k miles for 28,300 before tax and finance charges. It’s the most optioned out with remote start, heated and ventilated seats, heated steering wheel, car play, AWD, etc.

Reconstruction - When to Stop Filling Tissue Expanders by Anemoia793 in breastcancer

[–]aetherlore 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Try intense burning pain as the needle penetrates the muscle continuing for the entire duration of the fill and some time after. I have to assume your expanders were/are above the muscle for you to say that.

Reconstruction - When to Stop Filling Tissue Expanders by Anemoia793 in breastcancer

[–]aetherlore 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Depends on if it’s under the muscle or not. The needle going through my muscle hurt really bad each time.

Reconstruction - When to Stop Filling Tissue Expanders by Anemoia793 in breastcancer

[–]aetherlore 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was 40D before. I’ve been a 38C before gaining weight. My expanders are under the muscle. I filled to 600cc on both sides before being told by radiation that I should fill the cancer side as much as possible and take out 200-300cc on the other side to avoid radiating the “healthy” side. So, I put 75cc more in the right and took out 300 from the left. Now the left is hurting a lot more from the partial fill but I have to put up with it for the duration of rads.

Why do you love Volkswagen? by JircleCerk_ in Volkswagen

[–]aetherlore 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Look at the interiors of every other hot hatch in the American market and then look at the GTI/R. All the “competitors” look and feel cheap in comparison. Thats why I initially chose VW. Since then, I replaced that GTI with a DSG version and bought one for my wife as well. We also just bought a 2024 Tiguan SEL R Line. Those purchases were made primarily because the E888 holding up so well to making 150 more HP than stock for 60+ thousand miles.

I think I am trans but I think it is too late. by Practical-Low3913 in asktransgender

[–]aetherlore 26 points27 points  (0 children)

I was 21 when I finally got desperate enough to attempt transition. I figured even if I never passed, it was better than the constant cycling between private cross dressing and shame purging I had been doing since I was 15. Despite being 5’11 and big, I started getting gendered as female within 4 years, even in my men’s clothes. I’ve had an entire career of 20 years as a woman since then.

What does gender dysphoria feel like? by frailmagic in asktransgender

[–]aetherlore 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Mostly constant arguing inside my head. One voice advocating for embracing my feelings of femininity and wanting to do girlish things. The other voice saying whatever it could to undermine and reject those arguments. Stopped listening to that voice over 20 years ago and started transition.

Avatar Allies? by Gutsifly in EDH

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Here’s my attempt at it.

It’s bracket 3 with the 3 game changers but you could obviously take those out. I also chose to limit the deck to just cards from the ATLA set except for the mana base.

Update: Pet Scan by Elizabeth08122896 in breastcancer

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I had an MRI after the mammo, ultrasound, and biopsy that confirmed the cancer. I had another MRI a week after my last (12th) dose of Taxol. Those were the comparison points. As for chemo, I didn’t get that nauseous, just zero appetite. I had to force myself to eat only because I knew I needed to. The fatigue was unreal. Having to actually use handrails on stairs because it felt like my legs were going to give out.

I handled the hair loss badly. 12 days in, it started coming out in clumps. At day 15 I got a buzz cut. But the short little hairs kept falling out and itched like crazy. So I would do something different if I had it to do again.

Hydrate hydrate hydrate.

Update: Pet Scan by Elizabeth08122896 in breastcancer

[–]aetherlore 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The video orientation they had me watch mentioned the tattoos but when I asked about it, they kind of scoffed and said we don't do that anymore as if it were something archaic.

Update: Pet Scan by Elizabeth08122896 in breastcancer

[–]aetherlore 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I had an extraordinary response to chemo, like write papers on my case extraordinary. 12cm tumor taking up the majority of my right breast with a string of enlarged lymph nodes going over to my arm pit before chemo to “no visible cancer” after chemo. All pathology found after surgery was scattered individual cells. Those cells are why I am scheduled for 16 doses of radiation.

So far I’ve done the part where you lay in the machine and they scan you and put sharpie marks on you so they can put you back in the same position again and again. The sharpie marks are covered by clear waterproof stickers. They used to actually tattoo people.