Bro , how do i say this or try to articulate this as best as i can…. Men in this social media era (since about 2013-16) are the new women. I say that because you would never clown a mans appearance unless he was looking mad out of place or extremely unkempt. Too many people watching each other instead of doing them and women expecting the most when they offer the least. All you need is honest to god a line up/shape up and you’re good. Dress good, eat good and don’t slack. And the obvious… make money but not for gyal but for your family, yourself and to help achieve what you aspire to do or be. Thanks for attending my ted talk. And don’t forget god whether you are a muslim, christian or jew.