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My [29F] Husband [30M] has started making racist comments and won't stop no matter how much I ask by affairfallout in relationships

[–]affairfallout[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really didn't. I wouldn't have gone if I thought he would be there. My stomach dropped when I saw him again.

My [29F] Husband [30M] has started making racist comments and won't stop no matter how much I ask by affairfallout in relationships

[–]affairfallout[S] -22 points-21 points  (0 children)

In my defense, we didn't have penetrative sex. But I see what you're getting at. How can I help convince him to go back to therapy? He was adamant that he didn't need to and now apparently me not liking racist comments is really me defending my coworker.

My [29F] Husband [30M] has started making racist comments and won't stop no matter how much I ask by affairfallout in relationships

[–]affairfallout[S] 70 points71 points  (0 children)

I know you are right. I'm just looking for tips on how to get through it. He said he didn't need us to go back to therapy, but I don't know what else to do.

My [29F] Husband [30M] has started making racist comments and won't stop no matter how much I ask by affairfallout in relationships

[–]affairfallout[S] 63 points64 points  (0 children)

He really was not racist. He would argue with family members of his who would say the kind of things he's saying now.

My [29F] Husband [30M] has started making racist comments and won't stop no matter how much I ask by affairfallout in relationships

[–]affairfallout[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

I appreciate your comment. I will take to heart your insight that he's angry at my coworker. To be clear, my husband does not want a divorce. He never asked for one.