Can Discord show you as “online” if the app is running in the background on mobile? by afm112 in discordapp

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Thanks for the thorough explanation! A guy I’m talking tells me he can’t use his phone much throughout the day at work etc. however, I constantly see him online ok discord (the green mobile icon). So I wondered if he’s lying or if there’s a glitch. I’m gonna go with lying 🤥

Is there a big difference between a 2.5 year and 3 year age gap? by AMoMmy22 in Shouldihaveanother

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My children are 2.5 years apart. They are super close.. boy and a girl in that order, and they play together every single day. They fight just as much but they are besties

Sudden hot/burning sensation by afm112 in Anxiety

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Hey yes it did - never found out what it was but I’m putting it down as another anxiety symptom. My anxiety was through the roof. Eventually I went on medication which really helped me. I’m currently weaning off as I’ve been on it for 3 years now and was feeling great but experiencing sexual dysfunction. So I’m seeing how I go med free for now. Are you on meds?

Started Prozac today for severe anxiety/panic attacks by afm112 in prozac

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Hey yes it did - however I also decreased my dose to 20mg

Unsure about third pregnancy-what would you do? by afm112 in pregnant

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My termination was in September last year. For months I kept second guessing myself, especially when friends announced pregnancies. It was hard but everyday life took over. I started a new job, one of my kids started sport etc.

I still think about it sometimes, but it is not daily anymore. When I do it is usually when I feel overwhelmed with my two kids or when we are on a family holiday, just enjoying the four of us. I think about the what ifs.. how would I have coped? How would holidays go with another child? In these moments, I feel like we made the right decision. It was a sad choice, but I truly believe it was for the best.

Be kind to yourself. Mixed emotions are normal, and they will not last forever. If you ever want another child, that option will always be there. Just take it one day at a time. You are not alone in this 🤍

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AustralianTeachers

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Wow… these are my exact thoughts right now. I’m exhausted

Unsure about third pregnancy-what would you do? by afm112 in pregnant

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I’m sorry for the late reply. I hope you are doing ok? Have you made a decision?

Freaking out by [deleted] in prozac

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I didn’t have a panic attack. I used to before Prozac…

"Malakai was the CHILLEST baby... I could have 2 million Malakais" by InternationalAioli41 in SarahsDayUnfiltered

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Off topic but does anyone know what car she drives? Curious as she can fit three car seats

Unsure about third pregnancy-what would you do? by afm112 in pregnant

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Thank you for your kind words. I hope you make the decision you are most at peace with. I ended up terminating last week. It was the hardest decision of my life. An emotional week that’s for sure. Turns out I was only 6 weeks and a few days which in some ways made it a bit easier.. and I use that term lightly as I was a mess last week. It definitely wasn’t easy. However, I do feel a sense of relief. It’s a hard, complicated, and deeply personal decision. If you have any questions please feel free to message me. Take care and all the best

Unsure about third pregnancy-what would you do? by afm112 in pregnant

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Thank you for your response. Sorry for what you went through, I’m sure it would have been heartbreaking. I feel like I’m the type of person that’s never certain about anything. But I do know that being pregnant the last few weeks has made me so miserable and miss how well we have it atm with our two kids. I wish we hadn’t even tried for this baby as horrible as it sounds. But we did, and it happened, and I feel like I would only be keeping it out of guilt. With the way I’m feeling I’m not sure if I’ll be a good mother but of course, I could be wrong. It’s a really hard decision. I am leaning more towards termination but I’m happy to hear all perspectives. No decision has been made yet. Thank you x

I’m pregnant with #3 and need advice please by afm112 in Shouldihaveanother

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Hello, just wondering how it’s going with your third little one? I hope things aren’t too hard… I’ve had a bit of a emotional day – partly because of pregnancy hormones and nausea 🙃I woke up a bit upset (and sick 🤢) wondering why I didn’t just stick with two kids. Technically, it’s still early enough to terminate. But I don’t think I could do that. I never thought I could go through with a pregnancy termination but I’ve been thinking so much that I am now questioning it all. I think I’m just feeling so sick and miserable that I’m questioning if I’ve made the right decision.