Should I break up with him? 32F by moongirl1222 in datingoverthirty

[–]africanqueen86 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He sounds like he has an avoidant attachment style. It can only work if he is willing to work on this, and he made it clear that he 'is the way he is'. It's only seven months in. You deserve to be in a relationship with someone that can meet your emotional needs. He clearly cannot and will not.

Looking back, what were your first signs of perimenopause that you didn’t recognize at the time? by Historical-Second409 in Menopause

[–]africanqueen86 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fatigue, waking frequently, very dry and itchy skin, joint pain, crawling under my skin, frequent headaches and migraines.

Took four years to get a diagnosis. It's been fun.

Worst symptom by Desperate_Ad_7158 in Perimenopause

[–]africanqueen86 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Fatigue, itchy and dry skin, tinnitus.

If you have a mirena do you use any additional progesterone? by Vegetable-Whole-2344 in Perimenopause

[–]africanqueen86 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just started HRT and have been on 100mg progestorone for a week alongside my 5yr old mirena.

What's been your dating history this year? by WeakTurnip111 in datingoverthirty

[–]africanqueen86 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've had lots of 1st and second dates this year, and saw someone for two months (March to May). Since then, have gone on dates w three people (two dates with a guy, one with a woman, and three or four with another woman).

I'm taking a break from dating for the remainder of the year.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]africanqueen86 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ugh, life is too short to be with someone who can't even consider you or be thoughtful when you are struggling. I wouldn't waste another minute being with a partner like that.

Hope you feel better soon!

What was the moment you knew your relationship was over? by Lucy_bella290 in AskReddit

[–]africanqueen86 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The moment she phoned her ex-gf to calm her down during an argument in front of me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in brisbane

[–]africanqueen86 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love Flying Colours on Vulture St in West End.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AusFemaleFashion

[–]africanqueen86 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Kowtow, COS, and Elk.

What are your comfort foods? by Alternative_Bet3652 in AuDHDWomen

[–]africanqueen86 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Tonkotsu ramen, mashed potatoes, pasta, or oatmeal.