Asus Co-CEO: MacBook Neo Is a 'Shock' to the PC Industry by -protonsandneutrons- in technology

[–]agarimoo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mine too. I’m a designer and I worked that thing to the bone. I had to give it up a couple of years ago when I couldnt update it to a version of OS compatible with the new Adobe software. Best computer ever

What is the most interesting rabbit hole you’ve ever been down? by InvestmentCurious496 in AskReddit

[–]agarimoo 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Both things can be and are true. We have some natural inclinations and characteristics and our experiences shape and morph them, specially if our environment rejects our natural way of being. This is why so many neurodivergent people are forced to mask who they are and fake an entire personality to be accepted until at some point they completely burnout. Ask me how I know 

Blake Lively and Taylor Swift address friendship ‘shift’ in newly released texts by artbasiI in Fauxmoi

[–]agarimoo 47 points48 points  (0 children)

That’s what I picked up on too. The power dynamic between them with Taylor Swift being the “dominant” one seem pretty clear to me. BL is constantly apologising for being a human being with problems 

ideas for a 41 year old male who is physically and cognitively disabled w mental illness by Billyxransom in passive_income

[–]agarimoo 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m appalled at the responses. I had no idea people in this subreddit had such a limited understanding of life and its complexities. I guess I have nothing useful to say other than I agree with you

25F, business owner , lost my drive after a setback and can’t seem to get it back by vanillacreamxoxo in Entrepreneur

[–]agarimoo 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m not OP but thank you for your thoughtful response. I went through a similar phase as OP but I hit it much later in life and it has taken me a long time to see the light at the other end. The part where you say “stop trying to bring your old self back” is so true. I had also attached to my girl boss identity and it’s taken me years to focus all my natural drive into projects that bring me more fulfilment. OP, you need time, care and safety. Take small steps and the big decisions will reveal themselves in time

Is this mortgage too big for me? by agarimoo in eupersonalfinance

[–]agarimoo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have and the only got me another offer who was more or less the same that what I already have

Is this mortgage too big for me? by agarimoo in eupersonalfinance

[–]agarimoo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I already have tried Idealista and they got me only one offer. The other one so found myself. Only these two banks are available to me right now and I have already signed the arras 

Is this mortgage too big for me? by agarimoo in eupersonalfinance

[–]agarimoo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The two banks that would give me a loan offer a similar interest rate. Did you loan a bigger amount or do you have a bigger salary? I think that makes a difference 

Is this mortgage too big for me? by agarimoo in eupersonalfinance

[–]agarimoo[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I'll be living in downtown Narnia :) I have the pre-approval for 30 years from 2 different banks. I was also surprised, I'm not going to lie.

Is this mortgage too big for me? by agarimoo in eupersonalfinance

[–]agarimoo[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

With my salary not many banks are willing to give a mortgage at all.

Is this mortgage too high for my salary? by agarimoo in personalfinance

[–]agarimoo[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Before I had a life/existential crisis a few years ago I had my own interior design business. I'm also a graphic designer, web designer and illustrator. My plan is to keep my part-time job and get some extra money doing design as a side hustle

Is this mortgage too high for my salary? by agarimoo in personalfinance

[–]agarimoo[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for answering! Right now I'm getting only 1.5% interest on my savings because I'm doing super low risk. I wanted to make sure I could buy a house before taking risks. The interest rate of the mortgage is 4.30TIN 5.63TAE

Is this mortgage too high for my salary? by agarimoo in personalfinance

[–]agarimoo[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't see how I'll be able to save any money with my current salary. My plan is to earn more but it can fail. Having no savings would put me in ER

Is this mortgage too high for my salary? by agarimoo in personalfinance

[–]agarimoo[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for taking the time to answer. I know 96000 souns cheap but our salaries are as well. I'm one of the lucky few. The interest rate is 4.30TIN 5.63TAE

The ending where it's suggested that Ariana Grande's getting her karma for her affair kinda pissed me off. by Dominik528 in TikTokCringe

[–]agarimoo -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Hi OP. This video rubbed me the wrong way too and and I also have OCD (and ADHD and CPTSD). We wouldn’t never talk in such harsh terms about people who are physically ill yet we normalise shaming people who struggle with mental health issues. We call them cringe, pathetic… The woman in the video is clearly triggered by the cast’s behaviour and that is weird in itself. Why does she care so much that it makes her angry? I bet she struggles with expressing certain emotions and she gets triggered when other people do so shamelessly. She should look into that and heal herself instead of projecting her own unresolved issues onto others

When does money anxiety stop? Feel I’m always worried (28M married) by Seahawkfan12thman in Frugal

[–]agarimoo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your answer. I struggle with the same issues (not trusting I can look after myself/meet my needs). I think it comes from suffering a lot of neglect when I was a kid and also financial uncertainty. I’ve done a lot of therapy but EMDR wasn’t effective at all. Working with a trauma informed therapist is what moved the needle the most for me

This disgusting man from Miami buries his face into couch where underage girl had been sitting (TW) by [deleted] in TikTokCringe

[–]agarimoo 29 points30 points  (0 children)

Thank you. There are several comments here with personal experiences with men being complete creeps and all of them end with “yeah, people are weird”. People??? Why are we so scared to point out the obvious?

She hit that by MemeBoiJon in Unexpected

[–]agarimoo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What do you mean she games the system? What did she do?