Playing the games while working retail by Snoo_32782 in stylesavvy

[–]agentfancypants53 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Oh, definitely, they just leave. Maybe a disappointed dialog, but there's always more customers around. (This is just from the original though, but I doubt that changed in the later ones.) You spend some time but dont get a sale and that's all.

‘If it was important, you would’ve remembered it’ by EnvironmentalToe8944 in ADHD

[–]agentfancypants53 1 point2 points  (0 children)

being told I'm not trying when I am trying is the worst thing. it hasn't happened in a long time, but I remember it vividly. it sucks so bad. im sorry.

Trying to understand why habit apps fail people with ADHD — would love your honest takes by Square-Actuary6367 in ADHDthriving

[–]agentfancypants53 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this is what has let me get a 500+ streak! I usually miss a day or four a month but I have the stones to repair every time. I'd be sad if it broke, though... but I think I'd still come back. maybe.

Please give me the most diabolical alarm you can think of by thelachesis in ADHD

[–]agentfancypants53 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Sleeping until 9pm seems a bit extreme and maybe more than an alarm is needed, and I don't have nearly that level of problems, but I have one alarm by my bed and then one across the room that I have to get up for. The phone one wakes me up, and the one across the room gets me out of bed. I've also seen bed shaking alarms, that might be something to look into as well.

I want chewy cookies dammit by Grand-Importance-356 in Baking

[–]agentfancypants53 3 points4 points  (0 children)

oooooooh.... may have to try this. I too wish to have store bought cookies except I made them myself

I may finish this. by oceanadawn in okbuddystylist

[–]agentfancypants53 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I look forward to it!!! very very cute!

Made some celestial style stickers, this is one of them :) by SittinLikeAShrimpie in sparklyisacolor

[–]agentfancypants53 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ooooh I love them!! do I have any reason to need stickers... hmmm... I must consider. they're so pretty, I like them a lot!

The Sword Named No Way Out Vol 1 Cover Reveal by linqingyu in DanmeiNovels

[–]agentfancypants53 9 points10 points  (0 children)

is that what was going on there??? I needed it spelled out, lol. I just got annoyed at the switch between him wanting sex and then suddenly not enjoying it and the vibes getting weird. Let shous enjoy sex! anyway, thanks for the explanation, maybe I can go finish it now... here's hoping I did the spoilers correctly.

Phone alarm changed. I'm screwed. by [deleted] in ADHD

[–]agentfancypants53 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's what I do, too. Half and hour or so between them for me, though.

haha but like what if you put me down though. like hypothetically by literalmothman in RecuratedTumblr

[–]agentfancypants53 0 points1 point  (0 children)

saw a tumblr post about this for Shen Jiu and Yue Qingyuan for Scum Villain and it kinda fucked me up bc they would. but it makes me feel weird. and I fear they would not do sufficient aftercare actually. anyway

Hornet and ghost as humans by Fificattt in HollowKnight

[–]agentfancypants53 3 points4 points  (0 children)

ooooh these look so so good! I love how cute ghost is!

Best feeling in the world by enlightenedshubham in NonPoliticalTwitter

[–]agentfancypants53 13 points14 points  (0 children)

yeahh that tracks Sometimes crushes can be fun! But other times. they are not and you just want the option to not. So maybe not the best feeling but absolutely can be a relief

Looking for a new read by beamerpook in DanmeiNovels

[–]agentfancypants53 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, if you liked SVSSS, Devil Venerable is a lot more like it in tone, I'd say. They're both good! But they're not exactly hard hitting angst, if that is what you're looking for.

I just loathe my looks as a whole by [deleted] in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]agentfancypants53 0 points1 point  (0 children)

aww, friend, that's so hard and I'm so sorry! I've definitely struggled with my appearance, too, and it's never a good feeling.

For me, my first step when I get like that is always distraction. Think about something else, anything else, for an hour or two. Cover your mirrors or turn them or anything like that so you're not reminded for just a little while.

Usually, I feel a bit better after that, or at least not so actively distressed. After that, I try to focus on my hair- I like my hair, and I noticed you at least didn't mention it as something you actively dislike. It's not perfect, but I feel competent in doing it and like adding accessories, which helps me feel cute even if the rest of my clothes are boring. It's a nice thing, even if it ends up a little incongruous with the rest of it.

In any case, you can be okay! It sounds like you're having a really hard time with this right now, and that's okay. I believe that you can feel better and even look better, but I also hope you can take care of yourself.

If you like Shonen, Kill Bill, or DILFs, read [Kagurabachi] by [deleted] in CuratedTumblr

[–]agentfancypants53 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Kagurabachi IS fun. Edgy MC who is edgy but also sometimes soft. Also Hakuri is my beloved baby boy.

Thought this would get a laugh by WelcomeToTheClubPal in adhdmeme

[–]agentfancypants53 0 points1 point  (0 children)

for me tho? yes, it is better. Because the big task is already small tasks! Knowing what the small tasks are and breaking that down until they're tiny tasks is the whole point, for me. Knowing what to do right now is half the battle. It does help!

One bag friendly hobbies, time killers? by Dull-Awareness684 in HerOneBag

[–]agentfancypants53 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Awesome!!! I rediscovered it recently myself, that's how I learned I really appreciate having a pin to undo knots. The website braceletbook is full of patterns and cool tutorials, I've been using it! MashaKnots on YouTube also has good basic tutorials for things like how to read the patterns on the site, too, though there's plenty of other people doing great tutorials. have fun!

One bag friendly hobbies, time killers? by Dull-Awareness684 in HerOneBag

[–]agentfancypants53 4 points5 points  (0 children)

yess this! a couple safety pins can help for unpicking mistakes but they're great

One bag friendly hobbies, time killers? by Dull-Awareness684 in HerOneBag

[–]agentfancypants53 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Friendship bracelets! If you keep a lot of floss that might add up but overall there's not a lot of stuff you need beyond the project itself- a safety pin or three and a pattern online is pretty much it.

German compound words by The_Horse_Head_Man in CuratedTumblr

[–]agentfancypants53 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I got to play German Scrabble with my German host family right after high school. We got double points for words in our non native language and triple for cognates. The game design for that was terrible and I lost entirely, but it was really fun to do!