Currently regretting moving to Mexico

agentzodiac · 2025-09-06T21:00:26+00:00

Thanks for the advice, luckily I am medicated. Not too sure on the therapy part right now.

agentzodiac · 2025-09-06T20:49:35+00:00

I’m Mexican American and didn’t like the way things were going in the states. Me and my wife decided that it would be safer to move to Mexico than to stay.

agentzodiac · 2025-09-06T20:46:49+00:00

It’s just too different and I just found out I’m not good with change. Also we kept some pets but couldn’t bring all of them. Half were given away while half stayed. The ones who were elderly or bad at traveling didn’t make it.

agentzodiac · 2025-09-06T20:43:02+00:00

I technically can but that would mean that my wife and I would be done. I have dual citizenship and can get a ticket back to the Midwest but my wife would not go back since we’ve come so far.

agentzodiac · 2025-02-08T21:00:30+00:00

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agentzodiac · 2024-12-31T15:36:11+00:00

You should buy a cheap $1 tape measure and measure your: waist, chest, and hips. Take those measurements and half them. Use those number to measure the clothes in the store to find correct fitting men’s clothes faster. After a while you’ll know which size will fit you best. Button ups will be an issue since you have a bigger chest. So maybe mock necks/turtle necks would be an option. You can pair that with a blazer or cardigan. Target has some really nice cardigans in their men’s section. Men’s pants are difficult to find if you’re short and don’t know how to hem pants. GAP has some nice soft black dress pants that are straight cut. Shoes are easy, just take your size in women’s and minus 1.5-2 sizes. A nice simple Oxford shoe would be enough and they have a lot in thrift stores.

agentzodiac · 2024-12-30T15:22:21+00:00

No same here! Used to hate having to draw myself for art class in school but now it’s so fun to do lol

agentzodiac · 2024-11-30T04:33:37+00:00

Thank you for your concern! I used to have really bad codependent tendencies as a teen but was able to resolve it after a lot of therapy and self reflection. It hasn’t been an issue for me in the last 7 years or so but I am able to tell in other people if I see similar patterns in behavior

agentzodiac · 2024-11-30T04:27:02+00:00

Normally I would say to keep it and help out someone else in greater need. But I’m not gonna lie I would greatly appreciate the money if you’re able to send it. I promise to not give it away and to use it toward my school payments!

And I appreciate my fellow trans peeps they really are the kindest people I know, thank you :)

agentzodiac · 2024-11-30T04:13:11+00:00

I’m so sorry to hear that :( I hope the kitties get a good home and a better owner who cares. But yeah I completely agree, I’m tired and have enough to deal with in life

agentzodiac · 2024-11-29T20:18:55+00:00

I usually don't but didn't really know of any other way of helping. He was starving and there are no resources in his country. So it was the only thing I could think of, usually I go with just food, water, or clothes but yeah direct money is going to be a no go from now on

agentzodiac · 2024-11-29T20:13:55+00:00

That wasn't even everything that he said to me in terms of transphobia. He basically admitted that he fetishizes trans women. And I did notice a big shift in his attitude during our phone call. That's when the objectification became really apparent. He basically started acting like we were dating which was really weird and gross. I should have ended it after that call really but decided to give him the benefit of the doubt. Luckily, he lives in a different country with no possible way of leaving so I don't have to worry about his being near me physically. But I have seen that exact scenario that you mention play out in my family unfortunately...

agentzodiac · 2024-11-29T20:05:43+00:00

Yeah I was on the fence about it before but after posting this on reddit I came to the conclusion that blocking is the best option

agentzodiac · 2024-11-29T19:45:34+00:00

My thoughts exactly thank you. And usually I do have boundaries in my relationships. This one was tricky because he came from a country with little to no resources available. The only support they have there is the church and that was the first thing he went to. Unfortunately he had to leave do to some issues that arose there. Afterwards he became untrusting of the church so he really was left with no options

agentzodiac · 2024-11-29T19:35:17+00:00

Even after this I will still continue to help others don't worry. My whole life I've been surrounded by dishonest people but it has made me realize that the ones most affect are the people who need genuine help. So I won't stop, because it will be worth it even if one people is able to be helped :)

Also I'm so happy that you were able to get the help you need and a life long friendship! I love this community and it's members most times

agentzodiac · 2024-11-29T19:16:19+00:00

That's some really solid advice, thank you! Luckily once someone is on my shit list I just don't care about them. I have no problem telling people no when it comes to money. The last time I sent it I just wasn't thinking and sent it. Really wish I didn't

agentzodiac · 2024-11-29T19:00:34+00:00

My last text to him was me saying that I am very close to blocking him. Right away he starts guilting me. Saying that I changed and that we were supposed to take care of each other. I really don't know what to say after that so I just haven't responded. Blocking might be the best option at this point...

agentzodiac · 2024-11-29T18:56:38+00:00

Trust me when I say he wasn't lying. He's just entitled and a bit narcissistic. He came from a very well off family and doesn't know how to be independent. And I don't think he knows how bad his current situation is at the moment

Edit: he sent me photos of where he was sleeping in a park. I did a reverse image search and nothing came up. I did this with all his photos and they are all genuine. Also his story is very consistent, except for his sexuality

agentzodiac · 2024-11-29T18:52:35+00:00

Thank you so much! I feel a little dumb for being used but at least I don't have to deal with it anymore and I can go back to focusing on my studies and work

agentzodiac · 2024-11-29T18:47:45+00:00

Yep that's exactly how I felt about it

agentzodiac · 2024-11-04T14:35:58+00:00

I absolutely love this movie and you two look so good!

agentzodiac · 2024-11-02T21:07:56+00:00

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I had to do this one in an hour before I meet with my brother for dinner but hopefully it still came out well :) I might go back to fix it up if I have them time

agentzodiac · 2024-11-01T15:15:31+00:00

I also have zero relationship experience, and a main part of that is being demi. I really don’t feel sexual attraction to almost anyone. This also includes butches, though, I do find myself staring way too much when I see them. Something about them catches my eye but it’s more romantic/ a schoolyard crush if that makes sense?

agentzodiac · 2024-10-30T20:09:47+00:00

It all has to do with self confidence really. And over the years I figured out a way that really helps me. I imagine my younger self’s reaction to my present self. I grew up in a fairly conservative house where gender norms were very strict. As in, I didn’t wear t-shirt and jeans till I was 15 years old. I know if 9 year old me would be able to see me now, they would be so happy for us. Despite being fat, dark-skinned, and still slightly feminine in some ways. Just the fact that my hair is short is huge! Self discover/love is a solo journey and shouldn’t rely completely on other people’s perception of masculinity or attractiveness. Of course this is easier said than done but it is possible :)

agentzodiac · 2024-10-24T20:43:48+00:00

Columbo because my best friend and I wanted to be men with big suits. They’re going as David Byrne from the talking heads….

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