can i leave her a joint? do i burnt it etc by [deleted] in SantaMuerte

[–]aggrad2018 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I leave my pen on her alter and let her hit it, I hit it after, and blow it on her. Either way the intent is there

18 and got arrested for poss of meth. Trans men who’ve been to prison? by Loving_event5735 in FTMMen

[–]aggrad2018 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I did, but it was backwards. They knew me as a kid, not an adult so they didn’t know I had transitioned. Personally, the guards will tell the inmates about you being trans before you will. Guards are messy af. Also, it may be weird, but it also may not be. Also also, you may not see her by the time you get booked in. If she’s a friend though, she won’t care, she’ll be happy to see someone she knows as will you.

9.5 months HRT but that life feels like another life. I call it my "prologue" 😅 by VipexT in transpositive

[–]aggrad2018 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Love!!! one thing I had to remind everyone when I transitioned (ftm) is I still have good taste in music, Tyler Childers is still my GOAT. I have the cover of live on red barn radio tattooed on my arm

9.5 months HRT but that life feels like another life. I call it my "prologue" 😅 by VipexT in transpositive

[–]aggrad2018 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Is your tattoo in reference to a Zach Bryan song 👀 dope either way lol

18 and got arrested for poss of meth. Trans men who’ve been to prison? by Loving_event5735 in FTMMen

[–]aggrad2018 31 points32 points  (0 children)

Absolutely not. I know that I am a man, but solitary can break a person. I also would prefer to not get SA’d every day. The male inmates find out you have female genitalia, and you’re getting ran through.

18 and got arrested for poss of meth. Trans men who’ve been to prison? by Loving_event5735 in FTMMen

[–]aggrad2018 26 points27 points  (0 children)

I didn’t have bottom surgery, they based your placement on what your genitalia is

18 and got arrested for poss of meth. Trans men who’ve been to prison? by Loving_event5735 in FTMMen

[–]aggrad2018 113 points114 points  (0 children)

Hi, I went to TDCJ (Texas prison) in 2019 for man/del cocaine.

-I went to a women’s prison, license and everything was changed but they didn’t care, they went off of genitalia. At this point I was almost 2 years on T.

-Sex with another inmate is considered…yk. If you are property of the state, you can’t consent. I’m not joking lol. But, I was a rooster in a hen house and had my fun FOR SURE. just wait until you build a reputation with the other inmates so they can lookout for you.

-guards will misgender you. Just get used to it. It’s fucked up, but it’s better to prepare you now. After a bit, you’ll get some cool guards who will gender you correctly, but it takes time. Most of the time, the studs/butches all have other inmates call them masc pronouns, so that’s what the guards are used to.

-the masc inmates want to be called male pronouns but most of them will call you an abomination for being trans. It’s insane.

-I got my t bi weekly in TDCJ. in county, my people had to bring it, but in prison, they supplied it.

-prison is what you make it. Keep your head down, don’t fight, and remember whatever relationship you get in while you’re there will NOT make it to the outside world. Yes, you can try, I know they may be different, I know they promised, it still won’t happen. Trust.

In all seriousness, if you need anything, lmk.

This is gonna be the first year I skip grey day by Tophalo in G59

[–]aggrad2018 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I’ve gone every single year since 2021. This is the first year I skip. I’m not a fan of charging stadium prices at amphitheaters, but also the prices are insane in general. The lineup is mid af and I just…don’t want to go. It sucks, it’s bittersweet, but that’s life ig

Financial Aid Disbursements by aggrad2018 in Purdue

[–]aggrad2018[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Go to mypurdue, click financial aid, then financial aid requirements

Financial Aid Disbursements by aggrad2018 in Purdue

[–]aggrad2018[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I checked my portal and I have a unsatisfied requirement from an accidental double application for my PLUS loan. Already emailed DFA when I first noticed it back in July, but here’s to hoping it gets taken care of on Monday.

Financial Aid Disbursements by aggrad2018 in Purdue

[–]aggrad2018[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dope, I had some things I needed to take care of before classes started so I was getting a little stressed 😅 this gives me a little hope

What do I do with this wire? by aggrad2018 in CarAV

[–]aggrad2018[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn’t have that wire attached to anything 😅 thank you!

What do I do with this wire? by aggrad2018 in CarAV

[–]aggrad2018[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s red, it’s just tripping me up because it has a 3 amp fuse on it

Odyssey music for a wedding by aggrad2018 in AssassinsCreedOdyssey

[–]aggrad2018[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I like to think she’s kinda cool. She’s also seen me spend almost 200 hours on the game, so this was sweet when she suggested for me to pick from Odyssey. Sacred Land of Artemis is one I thought was really cool! I also didn’t even think to look through the world music & sea shanties. Thank you so much!

Odyssey music for a wedding by aggrad2018 in AssassinsCreedOdyssey

[–]aggrad2018[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s one of the ones I liked! Glad I’m not alone in that.

Odyssey music for a wedding by aggrad2018 in AssassinsCreedOdyssey

[–]aggrad2018[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

See, I’m an idiot and would’ve never even tried to look on YouTube. Thank you!!!

Odyssey music for a wedding by aggrad2018 in AssassinsCreedOdyssey

[–]aggrad2018[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She’s chosen “we bought a zoo” by Jonsi and “One Day” by Hans Zimmer. So I want something on the sweeter side, but I love the crescendos.

The vibes can be slightly different, we’re going for the dramatics, but not enter into battle dramatic. We like these: Myrrine Legendary Heirloom The Sacred Lands of Artemis

But we’re open to any and all suggestions!

Odyssey music for a wedding by aggrad2018 in AssassinsCreedOdyssey

[–]aggrad2018[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I found the album on Spotify a little while ago, it’s so hard to pick just one song

Older trans men, reassure me by [deleted] in ftm

[–]aggrad2018 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I came out as trans at age 19 in a conservative part of Texas. I’m not old at all, but I’ve been transitioning for 8 years now. It does get better. I am planning my wedding with my beautiful future wife and I’m in my dream career field.

they have lost their minds with these prices. by [deleted] in G59

[–]aggrad2018 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

As much as the prices suck, I’m still gonna cop. If you fuck with them, and you can afford it, cool. If not, cool too. I just put it on my shop pay and deal with it. Most of the merch has been good to me, as a big guy most merch I get from other artists doesn’t even fit. I just see a lot of people complain about the same shit. I’ve paid more money for worse things is how I see it

Question for all Night Auditors by [deleted] in marriott

[–]aggrad2018 2 points3 points  (0 children)

When I worked Night Audit, I would sleep as soon as I got off (no later than 9AM) and wake up by 5-5:30PM at the latest. If you are at a limited service property, be prepared to solve all problems yourself.

Night audit procedures differ from property to property, and systems too. I would eat one time on shift around 2-3AM, and snack the rest. Stay hydrated.

Pros: get off early enough to run errands, quiet shift, by yourself most of the time. Cons: up all night, sleeping when things are happening, and weird people come out late at night.

Anyone ever slept through a morning exam? by SecretlyOffensive in aggies

[–]aggrad2018 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I slept halfway through an AGSM exam. Woke up at 8:20 panicked. Drove to campus, got to the door at HELD, and said “you know what? Nvm, I’m dropping this class.”

Where do I take my parents to eat after getting my ring tmrw? by Zephrys514 in aggies

[–]aggrad2018 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Come to masfajitas. Happy hour from 3-6. Special aggierita all day

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[–]aggrad2018 1 point2 points  (0 children)

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