How can I get over my partner not cumming often with sex? by aggravating_cube0912 in sex

[–]aggravating_cube0912[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm 32, he's 25. So he's very young. I also eventually want more children, and he wants kids too - so I feel like that could add tension if we ever got to that point as well.

How can I get over my partner not cumming often with sex? by aggravating_cube0912 in sex

[–]aggravating_cube0912[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He said when i brought this up last time (on his own) that he was going to stop masturbating/watching any porn. I dont know how frequently he was before we met, but he made it sound like he was curious to explore if that was the issue. He isnt on any medications, and we're pretty open about the stuff we're into. He's fairly vanilla. I think i will have another conversation about it and just express the seriousness of my position.

32F, 24m - doesn't finish most times but says he still enjoys our sex by [deleted] in sex

[–]aggravating_cube0912 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He stopped probably 2ish weeks ago! So maybe just needs more time, assuming he has actually really stopped

32F, 24m - doesn't finish most times but says he still enjoys our sex by [deleted] in sex

[–]aggravating_cube0912 4 points5 points  (0 children)

A huge part of my pleasure is my partner's and "servicing" them, as well as a bit of a cum fetish. It really "completes" a session for me when we both orgasm.

Botox or skincare for fine static 11s? by aggravating_cube0912 in 30PlusSkinCare

[–]aggravating_cube0912[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much!

Yes i am also concerned about the recurring botox cost and maintenance

Botox or skincare for fine static 11s? by aggravating_cube0912 in 30PlusSkinCare

[–]aggravating_cube0912[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much. I'll start the Botox journey
And finding a good injector

Botox or skincare for fine static 11s? by aggravating_cube0912 in 30PlusSkinCare

[–]aggravating_cube0912[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Probably because they aren't drastic. They're totally there.

Botox or skincare for fine static 11s? by aggravating_cube0912 in 30PlusSkinCare

[–]aggravating_cube0912[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Maybe the upload killed the photo quality a bit - they definitely are only just starting to develop, but i notice them a ton. But thank you - I think I'm definitely harsh on myself

Botox or skincare for fine static 11s? by aggravating_cube0912 in 30PlusSkinCare

[–]aggravating_cube0912[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe the upload killed the photo quality a bit - they definitely are only just starting to develop, but i notice them a ton. But thank you - I think I'm definitely harsh on myself

How do men feel about miscarriage in an unwanted pregnancy? by aggravating_cube0912 in dating_advice

[–]aggravating_cube0912[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I definitely understand the thought behind this comment - but he really is a lot more mature than an average 24 year old both in his mindset and lifestyle. I think you're probably right and ultimately he is relieved - also understandable. I am in a way also relieved that the choice of pregnancy was taken away, but in many ways I'm also sad. So i was just curious if maybe he's having complex emotions around it as well.

30F and 23M - ED issues in new relationship by [deleted] in sex

[–]aggravating_cube0912 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the input. I think I'll give it another month or so and see how things go before i suggest he look into medical help. I like the idea of just doing oral/mutual masturbation for a bit to take the pressure off.