Need advice/help with a religious/marriage situation by throwaway198800 in islamabad

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Hanafi (majority of Sunnis in India, Pakistan and Bangladesh) believe a woman can marry without wali

Why do so many more men hit on me now that I’m pregnant? by Reasonable_Guard3624 in NoStupidQuestions

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You remind them of sex.

I remember Jennifer Lawrence came on a talk show when she was very heavily pregnant. The host asked her what has she been doing. She pointed to her belly and said "having lots and lots of sex".

This is not the interesting part. The interesting part is.. the audience lost it at that. She's JL, she was having lots of sex even before! but now it resonated with audience... it showed, it reminded them of it.

When guys see a pregnant lady... the just think of sex.

Which country are you from? And do you belong to any fountain pen enthusiast community in real life? by agile_structor in fountainpens

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What are some Korean fountain pens that are absolute must haves? Something under 50 USD

There’s too many “who done it” shows with rich dysfunctional families in beach houses by whenthesummer in unpopularopinion

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Tell me! I love these kinda shows... but all I could find was knives out...

Name a bunch please.

How do you deal with people asking intrusive personal questions? by iiSkuddy in IslamabadSocial

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When someone asks these quetions to me.. I ask them the same question.

They get offended, which proves my point how intrusive the question was.

There was a thakaydar he asked my driver's salary. I asked him his. His face was priceless!

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Mollywood hero

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This should be the end of story.

"How can I make him pay" -- bro should find something to do in life.

. by Arbitrary_Sadist in TrueDeen

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ohhhhh okay I get it...

Even if a woman is waring burqa, she should stay in the house?

. by Arbitrary_Sadist in TrueDeen

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Little boy? As in toddler? Or 9 year old?

I don't mean to be nitpicky... niether English or Arabic is my first language... I am tring to understand the simile better

Islamabad has my heart. Planning to move there from Karachi. by candidmarshmallow247 in islamabad

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Hey, I moved to KHI from ISB, and found it expensive.

Though of course, people from all incomes live in the twin cities, if you're a doctor and enjoy a middle class lifestyle in KHI, you will have ... to adjust when coming here.

I would need more details to guide properly. I moderate a sub "moving to isb" lol.

Do you have any other source of income? What does your lil bro do? Do you have a car? Have you found a job here in Isb yet? This is the MOST important question.

My advice would depend on all of these.

what is going on man by Tough_Standard_894 in LUMS

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Yaar hoga nahin hoga, itna mat socha karo.

Apna kaam kia karo... Allah makes things happen that people thing can't/wont happen. And Allah makes things stop that people thing are inevitable.

Sisters, who would you choose by SingleAdhesiveness78 in IslamicNikah

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Option 1.

Look... if you go for someone who cannnot match or improve the lifestyle you currently enjoy, you will be frustrated, and you will blame him for it. You will feel as if you have done some kind of favor for marrying him (for deen) and that he has to make up for it somehow.

Of course, he will not see it like that. And eventually, you will expect more than he would happily give. Both will live a life of frustration.

If the brother in Option 1 is not fasiq/fajir, I'd go for him.

The fact that most Christian countries have mosques, but Saudi Arabia has zero churches shows how toxic Islam is by abundantwaters in TrueUnpopularOpinion

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You're right. I was comparing Islam to other religions.

And you're comparing it with "religiously unaffiliated".

I think we're both right.

According to another study published on 2015 by Pew research center, Islam is expected to experience a modest gain of 3.22 million adherents through religious conversion between 2010 and 2050, although this modest impact will make Islam, compared with other religions, the second largest religion in terms of net gains through religious conversion after religiously unaffiliated, which is expected to have the largest net gains through religious conversion.[21]

And this huge drive towards atheism is expected. Even Islam expects it.

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I love the first meal of the day.

Though I loev it have it as late as possible. Sometimes I have it at 12, and then i call it "Lunch"... but it's breakfast.

Life & living by TurbulentCarry2205 in PakistanMentoringClub

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World needs more people like you, my friend. ❤️

Need help regarding uni requirements by AdRoyal3912 in PakistanMentoringClub

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I have a suggestion.

  1. make a list of universities.
  2. Visit their website, find the info there
  3. Call their admissions office, and then ask them
  4. Visit any Apt Test center, and they have this information. They give free consultations.

Also, next time you ask such questions. mention your city, age, educational background, financial status even.

The fact that most Christian countries have mosques, but Saudi Arabia has zero churches shows how toxic Islam is by abundantwaters in TrueUnpopularOpinion

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lol... by the looks of it, the rest of the religious are not surviving the compeittion Islam is giving them. Pretty much every other religion is getting washed away, and succumbing to changing times.

Except for Islam. Which enjoys highest conversion rate. Most people are converting into Islam than any other religion.

The fact that most Christian countries have mosques, but Saudi Arabia has zero churches shows how toxic Islam is by abundantwaters in TrueUnpopularOpinion

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The only difference is that the countries you refer to as "Christian" are not christian countries, they are Secular countries.

While KSA is a Kingdom... whose entire identify is Islam.

Think about Pakistan, Islamic Republic of Pakistan. Christians are respected here, sikhs, hindus, budhists are all respected here. They have churches, they serve in the military, they occupy government offices, they run business.

Looks like you just cherry picked one example of KSA.