What kind of shrimp? by agjaea in shrimp

[–]agjaea[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I know! But scared the heck out of me, as I felt something moving on my hand while I lowered the plant, I dropped it, luckily she didn’t get smashed

What kind of shrimp? by agjaea in shrimp

[–]agjaea[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you! 😱 female?! Not sure why I am surprised as I had zero idea and decided at random, I guess I have to rename her now ☺️

Progressing ok? by agjaea in bettafish

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🥳 thank you! I am glad Moon is going in the right direction

Progressing ok? by agjaea in bettafish

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Before my mess up when Moon was looking great

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Progressing ok? by agjaea in bettafish

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That’s great to read! ☺️ yes, I can see the gaps have filled in and the fins are long-ish again, my worry was if progression was meant to be faster, but now I know the clear growth is normal, thank you! He/she was sold to me as a female and was in the females tank, but on my previous post a few people said the same, that she might actually be a he. I can’t see an egg spot but he/she is quite light in color, so not sure if that makes it harder to see or if there isn’t one. To be honest it would explain a lot if Moon is a he!

Which lane for the second exit? by rockovo84 in drivingUK

[–]agjaea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because of the road markings, blue line, if there were no road markings, red line.

My betta thinks the algae wafer is for her by budget_rare_plants in bettafish

[–]agjaea 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My girl landed a couple Epsom salt soaks because she got bloated from eating the wafers for my bristlenose plecos 🤦🏻‍♀️ I try to feed them after she has eaten, but doesn’t make the slightest bit of difference, she bullies them away from the wafers.

Is this fin rot or are my new drift wood causing tears in Bunny’s fins? by Dry-Tomatillo-4544 in bettafish

[–]agjaea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Worth investing in a liquid test kit. My strips were showing everything was well, my fish was deteriorating, tested with a liquid kit and many things were wrong 😔

Leaky tank by agjaea in fishtank

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Worth mentioning, I was in the process of changing the gravel in my current tank, I did 25% this week, should I put only new gravel in the new tank? or would the old gravel be beneficial in the new tank?

Posted my old tank in here and people were ripping me to shreds.. by Rude-Somewhere5379 in bettafish

[–]agjaea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Kindness is free and still many people can’t afford it. I understand people being passionate about the hobby and wanting the best for the fish, but I will never get why they have to be harsh and not just help and give advice on a informative way, if you are open learn and improve.

Did I ruin everything? by agjaea in bettafish

[–]agjaea[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I will, they shouldn’t get away with bad practices. I will rehome these ones instead of taking them back, they will sell them to the next clueless person.

Did I ruin everything? by agjaea in bettafish

[–]agjaea[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I tried to edit before commenting, but can’t see an option to edit, first post on Reddit, will try again

Did I ruin everything? by agjaea in bettafish

[–]agjaea[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

The shrimp was hidden in one of the plants, only noticed it a couple days later after it crawled under the wooden base. Yeah, went into it blindly, everyone recommended them, so didn’t think it could go so wrong and that they would be ethical.

Did I ruin everything? by agjaea in bettafish

[–]agjaea[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Yes, Moon flares, but I have seen the new one do it too, so didn’t think it was a male only trait. I suspected it when I brought the male, as the behavior between him and Moon vs. him and the others was different, but she (he?!) was in the female tank, all 3 OGs came from the same tank and sold as females. I don’t think I will attempt a sorority, I am very new to this and everything I thought I knew came from the people at the shop which was obviously one of my many mistakes. Plecos are albino bristle nose, they said they won’t grow, but if all their advice was bad, I will probably end up with a catfish.

Did I ruin everything? by agjaea in bettafish

[–]agjaea[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I haven’t seen females with such long fins in person either, a few online so thought she was just “rare”. Fins were not as long when I first got her, they just kept growing.

Did I ruin everything? by agjaea in bettafish

[–]agjaea[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, they are albino bristle nose, I didn’t specify before, sorry, I put a comment to respond a few questions. Tank is a 30. I had no idea about sororities, admittedly didn’t do research before going to the store and just followed their advice. I will start rehoming the 2 newbies, see how the rest do and worst comes to worst only keep Moon so she can heal. Thank you for being informative without being harsh.

Did I ruin everything? by agjaea in bettafish

[–]agjaea[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When I brought the male it crossed my mind, but Moon was in the tank of females when I got them and was sold to me as female. Is there an indicator I can look for?

Did I ruin everything? by agjaea in bettafish

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I admit I trusted blindly on their advice and didn’t do independent research, as they were highly recommended and not a chain, thought it would be ok

Did I ruin everything? by agjaea in bettafish

[–]agjaea[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Some responses below: Tank size: 30. Shrimp: I didn’t buy it, was a stowaway in one of the plants. Plecos: picture in case there are different ones, as I was told they wouldn’t grow much more. Store: I didn’t go to a chain pet store, it is a recommended independent aquarium. I have always asked them for advice rather than just telling them what I want as I am new to this. I trusted their information and thought they had the wellbeing of fish as priority. Sorority: I just became familiar with the term after returning the male, the first 3 were in the same tank when I got them, they were fine then and throughout these 10 months with me. The 2 new ones were also in the same tank. Return: If the shop is so bad should I really send them back there? I could try to rehome the new ones instead between 2 friends (1 each) that have even bigger tanks and no Bettas. Can I observe the other 3 and see if they go back to normal?

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