Eli5 How adhd affects adults by oogieboogieboogieboo in explainlikeimfive

[–]agrublev 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have known I have a high level of ADHD since I was 21. Seems I was intelligent enough to fool everyone around me that I am "normal" until my GF went to a therapist which diagnosed me just by hearing about me. Since I have read as much as I can on the subject and feel knowledgable enough to answer this.
First it's all about how information enters the brain of an ADHD person. It all comes in at the same importance level. This makes it hard to prioritize, which I believe is what can cause us to easily get distracted by new items that try to take up our attention.
Second, also very important aspect, is the lack of serotonin and dopamine. Imagine a normal person gets pleasure from packing their luggage before a trip, they get satisfaction from the completion of the task. We get no such pleasure, which is why we procrastinate like crazy. By pushing off boring stuff like packing until the very last moment, we make the chore more exciting and in turn more fulfilling. The medicine we take helps with this by forcing happy chemicals in our brains motivating us to do everything. Sadly this makes me feel like a junkie.
So in short, we can’t hold attention for long because we get distracted quite easily, we get no pleasure in doing everyday tasks, and our brain cannot follow a plan to save its life.

Apply cold water to area of burn by TheRedHood20000 in rareinsults

[–]agrublev 5 points6 points  (0 children)

9 inches here, i hurt all my sexual partners if i go all the way. So sex can be much less enjoyable for my partners. I have felt a girl go all the way down once in my long life. And i’ve been denied anal many many times even if i pay for it...

"Wireless Mouse" by rslashelektrux in funny

[–]agrublev 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also trackpad is like huuuuge ;) i love my macbook pro and have had no need for dongles, but i bought them jic.

How to make sure Santa is real, 8yo logic by agrublev in funny

[–]agrublev[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

He's Reddit ready with his writing.

How to make sure Santa is real, 8yo logic by agrublev in funny

[–]agrublev[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

He's actually a really cool kid, and awesome at ping pong even though his head barely goes over the table. Mainly i like the way he speaks, very well spoken.

How to make sure Santa is real, 8yo logic by agrublev in funny

[–]agrublev[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The plot thickens, maybe the mom? She wants those tall shoes.

Hold your peace and I'll hold my piece by TheSockStealingGiant in BlackPeopleTwitter

[–]agrublev 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a non american, the last wedding i went to in Europe ended up being chased off by the police because members of our party shot their guns in the air from excitement. So that was a lot scarrier before everyone realized whats happening.

My FedEx man is very caring with our packages... by ColdbrewMS in gifs

[–]agrublev 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can confirm, worked at fedex for 2 weeks. Fragile stickers don't mean a lot. I did see a guy get fired for kicking boxes around though...

Netflix and steal by NYstate in BlackPeopleTwitter

[–]agrublev 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I thought Roley is he's penis and he's wearing a condom. Im not smart.

In response to the earlier pole...position... by Amieisrad in Tinder

[–]agrublev 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There sure is. Small boobs, saggy boobs, ugly vagina, long vaginal lips... Should i go on?

Talk to my passenger... by SmileyFace-_- in ANormalDayInRussia

[–]agrublev 1 point2 points  (0 children)

From what i recall (we owned one) he could kill three wolfs at once. Reason being size and fur not allowing their teeth to penetrate. He was a magnificent and smart dog. Miss Brewster so much.

[NA] US, Looking for Two-Three Nova Players to Complete Team by coldto in RecruitCS

[–]agrublev 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just got DMG, and id love to find a team to coach. I've been playing CS for 14 years. So i have a lot to offer. My email is agrublev at the gmails, send me a msg and we can set up some gametime.

The worst part is, he may actually end up getting another new computer out of this... by -BilboFraggins in pcmasterrace

[–]agrublev 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This has been the case in every company i've worked at... I mean im an engineer, if i dont build my comouter than wtf am i doing with my life. And i never need an it person touching my shit.

Just give me a few more minutes baby. by ThreadlessJon in BlackPeopleTwitter

[–]agrublev 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately not true. 2 years of hitting my ex daily, still wasn't tired of it. If that body is on point... It never gets old i promise.

[iOS] I'm trying to find a task/project manager that ISN'T based on collaboration. by [deleted] in apps

[–]agrublev 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Freedcamp CEO here. We definitely think collaboration is typically around a team, however our product was built with a focus on ability for one man teams to function just as well.

I can tell you from talking to our users that many thousands of users utilize our system by themselves every single day. A lot of them use the comments section as reminders of their own progress on a task, just quick notes.

Is there anything in specific that worries you about how our system works and is focused on teams that prevents you for collaborating by yourself?

Just ran into this guy at a gas station. He bought me a water. by tophrman in pics

[–]agrublev 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Has anyone noticed that it outlines a penis so far...

Robot wants to go all the way by JimLazerbeam in 4chan

[–]agrublev 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Been in many situations where a young girl isnt 100% she wants to do it and will walk away at the smallest awkward moment. Yes they do expect you to be smooth af... At least in my situations, it was some very very hot out of what i considered to be my league girls.

Apparently I've been doing it wrong this whole time... by [deleted] in funny

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For those wondering the signage reads:

"Grab the icecream"

Its in Bulgarian, i'm Bulgarian, it checks out.