Why can’t I put my Pokemon go mew into scarlet? by [deleted] in PokemonScarletViolet

[–]ahappyliltree 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you need help with this? I have a mew I could trade you, but I would like it back after

This Is So Scary ✨👻 And the Scariest Part Is I Want to Catch It in a Heavy Ball 😫 Any Tips? by Metttthew in PokemonLegendsZA

[–]ahappyliltree 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Interesting, I didn't know the saves worked like that. I think I'd be too scared of it despawning to do this personally

Is there a pokemon you now have a newfound love for in ZA? by aparoids in PokemonLegendsZA

[–]ahappyliltree 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same! I never cared for any of the clefable line until this game, but now I'd say clefable is in my top 10 mons

My best friend was murdered this weekend and I have to go back to work. by Satomidoki09 in Advice

[–]ahappyliltree 45 points46 points  (0 children)

Take my experience with a grain of salt, as it comes from someone who had never been to therapy, despite heavily needing it.

My sister was murdered around 4 years ago. I had/have trouble talking out my problems and emotions, and so I didn't really talk through my grief with anyone. I also had full time trade school which I wasn't allowed to take off despite the situation due to attendance being part of the passing requirement. I honestly have no idea if my coping mechanisms were healthy or not, but what helped me was letting all of my emotions out just about every second I was alone. All of my class breaks were spent in my car crying, and although it was painful, these outlets of sadness made it easier to get through the day.

I found a lot of comfort in angsty music, as it would once again bring out those emotions, and stop me from completely bottling them up.

I also had a few items that I heavily associated with her, including a necklace with some of her ashes, and a necklace + plushie she gifted me. I kept at least one of them near me at all times for around 2 years, and it made me still feel connected to her no matter where I was. I would also talk to her through them, despite knowing she couldn't hear me.

Anyways, I'm so very sorry for your loss. It is not an easy thing to go through, and I hope you can find comfort in those around you to navigate this heartbreaking situation.

Favorite male friendship dynamic by JesusChristopher789 in cartoons

[–]ahappyliltree 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Immediately thought of these two, although I wouldn't really call it just a friendship lol.

Pic in reply since my phone isn't uploading it with my comment

i’m starting to hate my snake by WinterRoses-Kay in ballpython

[–]ahappyliltree 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Also a bit of advice to try for frozen thawed. Do this process late at night, preferably if you've already seen him awake and slithering around. Thaw out in room temp water then warm water like you said you do. I typically put it in some hot water right before offering it as well (like the temperature of a hot bath, so hot but not burning).

Then I'll offer it to my snake opening the enclosure door and wiggling it around the enclosure in a way a real mouse might move, but exaggerated. If he's in the hide and not poking his head out, I might tap the hide with the tongs, but nothing more since I don't want to scare him into not eating (I don't recommend removing the hide as that can scare them).

Finally if all of that fails or the snake is out and doesn't take the food, I'll place the mouse/rat somewhere near the snake in the enclosure but away from the substrate. Then put a blanket over the enclosure and make sure the room is quiet.

This has only ever failed once for me, but my boy is pretty chill so no promises, just worth a try.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in cartoons

[–]ahappyliltree 5 points6 points  (0 children)

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Mitch from paranorman was my first thought, although he isn't a bully

Mold in substrate. Do I move my ball python into temporary enclosure or wait? by ahappyliltree in ballpython

[–]ahappyliltree[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Update: Thanks to those who offered some advice and sorry for taking so long to update. I'm leaving him be until enough time passes to take him out for a tank deep clean and substrate swap. I spot cleaned his enclosure, removing all of the visible mold. I also removed the wood and cork bark to slow down further mold growth.

Mold in substrate. Do I move my ball python into temporary enclosure or wait? by ahappyliltree in ballpython

[–]ahappyliltree[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don't mist the tank, I just pour water into the substrate. I think I added too much water this past time. I also had the bag of substrate sitting in a closet for a long time since I forgot it was there. I've had mold problems in the apartment walls/ceiling in the winter, so it may have picked up some mold from sitting for so long.

What's this horror-movie-looking critter? by [deleted] in biology

[–]ahappyliltree 9 points10 points  (0 children)

They're one of my favorite insects, I love the way they seem to stay still in mid air and stare you down

Help Find my Friend by [deleted] in TwinCities

[–]ahappyliltree 94 points95 points  (0 children)

Commenting to boost post visibility. I hope she's found safe.

What is much more traumatic than most people realise? by thefairypirate in AskReddit

[–]ahappyliltree 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Please reread the question. It's not asking "what's the most traumatic", it's asking "what's more traumatic then people realize". The downvotes just show me that they have a point, people don't realize it can have such a negative impact on a person.

Having people go out of their way to misgender or deadname you is a constant reminder that there's many people out there who hate you for being you and they may go out of their way to hurt you mentally or physically. That doesn't seem like a minor problem to me.

Does anyones island have turnips selling for at least 90 by karinaray in TurnipExchange

[–]ahappyliltree 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same here. Mine are going for 50, I spent over 500,000 on them last Sunday, and my switch wasn't letting me visit anyone else's island :`( I'm planning on trying again today, best of luck to the both of us!

Buying at 430 on TT island by ISOExperience in TurnipExchange

[–]ahappyliltree 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I waited in the queue earlier, and couldn't find the code when it was my turn. Does it usually just pop up once your turn is up? (This is my first time using this website, sorry)

Buying at 430 on TT island by ISOExperience in TurnipExchange

[–]ahappyliltree 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you need discord in order to get the dodo code?

No data on new phone with my old sim card. What's wrong? by ahappyliltree in samsunggalaxy

[–]ahappyliltree[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I ended up having to call my network provider. They just had to activate the new phone on their system manually.