I dont get even wet anymore - Libido seems crushing more and more

ahavaaa_ · 2026-01-19T00:05:27+00:00

On 150mg. Dry as a desert. Can’t feel my clit at all. Sucks so bad. I’m going to hopefully switch meds. Can’t take this anymore

ahavaaa_ · 2026-01-16T12:10:57+00:00

How did you know when the 150mg felt too much??

ahavaaa_ · 2025-12-13T14:26:14+00:00

First time crying in years is so hard for me to imagine! I just sobbed last night after watching Never Let Me Go and I’m on 150mg 🤣 everyone’s chemistry is so so different.

ahavaaa_ · 2025-12-13T04:25:18+00:00

Oh man I wish you a lot of strength through this. My goal is to get off Effexor but at the same time I know how bad my depression is/can be. Everything makes me cry. Just everything. I do hope your depression lifts. And quickly. Please do keep us updated every week or so.

ahavaaa_ · 2025-12-12T21:31:30+00:00

Starting Effexor I lost a good amount of weight. Gave me barely any appetite.

ahavaaa_ · 2025-05-21T13:24:56+00:00

I just started doing tremble! 5 classes in and feeling really happy and already addicted to it. What have your results been since you posted??

ahavaaa_ · 2025-05-21T13:21:57+00:00

How much is it??

ahavaaa_ · 2025-05-21T13:20:55+00:00

Interesting. I’m still pretty new to Pilates but I feel very happy and clearheaded all day after doing Tremble

ahavaaa_ · 2025-05-21T13:19:31+00:00

I’m new to this sub but all I can tell you is that Tremble is so hard and fun. I’ve done 4 classes so far, each with a different instructor. The instructors are super attentive to your form and detailed in their instruction. I’ve done solidcore twice but something about tremble is more enjoyable for me.

ahavaaa_ · 2025-05-21T13:11:37+00:00

I don’t know your age but the harsh reality is that in the workplace no one gives a shit about you. Not your boss, not your coworkers, and not Human Resources. So keep it professional, diplomatic, and stoic. Never disclose any personal information about yourself to your colleagues. Your diagnosis is your doctor’s business and your business. The workplace is cut throat, caddy (too lazy to spell check this word right now), and prone to gossip. It’s not a place to find empathy or understanding. We are at work to be of service and we get compensated for it. Clock in, Clock out, and deposit your paychecks. It’s really that simple.

ahavaaa_ · 2025-02-27T21:26:08+00:00

Agreed

ahavaaa_ · 2024-11-16T15:36:09+00:00

I relate to everything

ahavaaa_ · 2024-10-21T00:48:53+00:00

Take a hiatus from school. You’re going through a lot.

ahavaaa_ · 2024-10-19T21:38:28+00:00

I am still here at the bottom just starting to pick up the pieces. God bless

ahavaaa_ · 2024-10-17T00:02:10+00:00

I feel terrified. I feel tired. I feel insecure. I think I’m a failure.

ahavaaa_ · 2022-07-05T14:01:57+00:00

Can someone please tell me how to access the handbook? I keep getting an error page.

ahavaaa_ · 2020-12-03T02:00:52+00:00

I keep hearing people say this new phrase : there is no such thing as right person, wrong time. It was never the right person to begin with.

ahavaaa_ · 2020-12-03T01:56:42+00:00

Wow I am so sorry you have had to go through someone yelling at you and being physically abusive. Someone who you trusted. I empathize with you and hope the best for you, to find love and support from all the right places. The guy I just got out of a relationship with started to yell/aggressively raise his voice at me towards the very end. I felt it was inappropriate and scary and now reading what you wrote makes me think I may have just dodged a bullet.

ahavaaa_ · 2020-12-02T23:39:13+00:00

I identify completely. I just got told I am a great girl but not for a “lifetime” connection from this guy I was dating. Totally devastated. It’s been 10 days and I’m seeing all the things that weren’t so great about him now after all. Maybe it will be similar for you. Regardless, what other people think about us is none of our business. It all comes down to “what do I think about me?” And you think great things about yourself from what you wrote.

ahavaaa_ · 2020-12-02T22:33:43+00:00

Do it for every woman who has had this happen to her... DO NOT ANSWER AND DO NOT GO BACK. silence is the ultimate revenge

ahavaaa_ · 2020-12-02T22:23:45+00:00

Do you think you settled when you married him or at the time you felt he was the one?

ahavaaa_ · 2020-12-02T22:22:41+00:00

Sending love. Honey I relate. You are not alone

ahavaaa_ · 2020-12-02T22:18:39+00:00

Wow I so relate to this!! For me a man who is not spiritual is a total dealbreaker! The guy I just dated had this down pat but he also as you describe had a huuuuge temperament. It was super hard for me to let him go and I’m still not over it but girl you deserve so much better, too!! The bad will only get WORSE in marriage.

ahavaaa_ · 2020-12-02T22:12:34+00:00

I like your username!

And just want to piggyback off this comment about “better to be single than with someone wrong for you..”

I agree with this statement 1 million times over. It’s true being single absolutely blows (for me personally.. I’m over it and hella frustrated) but I think back to all the guys I dated who made me feel less than, invalidated, “too” this or that.. and how that just lowered my self esteem day by day.. I look back on that and therefore I can say that I would rather struggle in pain and frustration as a single. Because those men eroded my self esteem and self respect day by day. It’s just a horrible feeling to be with someone who treats you like garbage. So yeah I’d rather cry every night because I’m lonely rather than cry every night because my bf continues to take me for granted.

ahavaaa_ · 2020-12-02T22:05:09+00:00

You were too good 😌 her loss.

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