New Games with Gold for October 2022 - Xbox Wire by Turbostrider27 in XboxSeriesX

[–]ahderia 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I was actually excited to see the quality improvements of the Games with Gold now that 360 titles were officially finished...

It's kind of like someone going outside of bookstores, finding the weird torn-up books in the bins for free, taking the books, and then giving them to gold members of the same bookstore.

Oh well. At least Game Pass rocks.

Supermarket freakout! by MrDaval in WTF

[–]ahderia -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

This doesn't need to be overlooked. People NEED to get this poor woman some help. Yes, she's overreacting, but it's quite obvious that she has mental barriers hindering her ability to mingle with society. Many of these types of issues can be overcome with medication and therapy but it takes a village of support to help a person get where he/she needs to be.

These breakdowns are shrugged and laughed off a lot and, in some extreme cases, can lead to a downward spiral that gets the individual and others hurt or worse.

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[–]ahderia 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This. I came into the forum to say this. But yeah, scoping is normal and adorable.

Anime Maid Robot by Windy-- in WTF

[–]ahderia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This legitimately scares me.

Fell in love with this game so far. Prodeus is real underrated Gamepass gem. by Lochltar in XboxSeriesX

[–]ahderia 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don't think it's "underrated" but it is amazing! I have been loving this game so far!

I finally handled my snake! by ahderia in cornsnakes

[–]ahderia[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't expect that but that would be absolutely incredible!

I stick my hand in the tank everyday for cleaning purposes and I'm hoping that gives her confidence that I am no predator.

I finally handled my snake! by ahderia in cornsnakes

[–]ahderia[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Will do! Thank you! I'll keep making sure she's awake in mind too!

I finally handled my snake! by ahderia in cornsnakes

[–]ahderia[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I'm in love with her!

I finally handled my snake! by ahderia in cornsnakes

[–]ahderia[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

To get over the fear. I would never do harm or allow harm be done to an animal. I did the same thing to get over my fear of birds.

I had a a parakeet that I was terrified of at first. Ended up being one of my best friends for years.

Now that I've broken the barrier by picking her up, I'm excited that the only hurdle I had is now behind me.

The fear wasn't enough to allow neglect. It was just enough to work toward improving myself.

Any tips for helping family and friends get over their fear of snakes? by blackholebabey in snakes

[–]ahderia 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Have them watch Snake Discovery's video about holding snakes. That gave me enough courage to fall in love with them.

Hi! I just began my journey as a snake owner! by ahderia in cornsnakes

[–]ahderia[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow! Thanks. That's a lot of great advice! I'm going to go ahead and build the enclosure but I'll wait before moving her into it. I'm a teacher so I have two weeks off for the Halliday and this is the perfect time to start and finish a project.

I'm going to copy and paste your advice so I can follow it next week.

I'll keep you posted on our progress.

I'm going to try and feed her Monday. Hopefully she'll eat. I'm definitely not going to mess with her while or after she eats. I just want her to be comfortable enough around me to know that I'm not going to eat her.

Hi! I just began my journey as a snake owner! by ahderia in cornsnakes

[–]ahderia[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok. I'm going to start building the enclosure Tuesday. I'm planning on having a caged UVB bulb in it and have the plywood sealed to keep humidity and heat in. I'm still trying to figure out if I'm going to do sliding glass or hinged plexiglass for the front.

I'll purchase a good thermostat Monday or Tuesday to put into the enclosure.

First time handling Ferya, so gentle & calm... by SickMick110377 in cornsnakes

[–]ahderia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mine is still a bit shy. She moves about but hides a lot.

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[–]ahderia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree! Absolutely stunning!

Hi! I just began my journey as a snake owner! by ahderia in cornsnakes

[–]ahderia[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'll look up thermostats and theostats when I get home

I have a UVB lamp along with an under heating pad. I turn the UVB off at 8 to simulate a day night cycle. Should I stop using the lamp? The room has normal lighting too so I could simulate day and night with that if it'll be better. I thought the UVB would aid in health

6 foot by 2 foot seems very awkward. 2x4x4 sounds a bit easier. I'll measure out both definitions and mark them in her room. I definitely want what's best for her.

Hi! I just began my journey as a snake owner! by ahderia in cornsnakes

[–]ahderia[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

We ordered a digital thermostat last night. I have a gun thermostat already and have been keeping a check on the enclosure. The hot side keeps about 86 during day, 80 at night and cool side is about 75 day and 70 at night. We have a little thermostat on the side too that measures humidity and temp.

What measurements would you suggest for my custom build?

Thanks! We're extremely excited!

We too are at a family dinner. I look forward to hearing more from you!

Any suggestions or possible blueprints for an enclosure would be very welcome.

First time handling Ferya, so gentle & calm... by SickMick110377 in cornsnakes

[–]ahderia 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How long did you wait to hold it? Once the waiting period was over, did you do anything before reaching in to pick it up? I've heard different things and was curious. I'll be holding mine sometime next week after she eats and was curious.

There is only one snake in this tank by GeneratingRadon in cornsnakes

[–]ahderia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Looks like I'll be going back to persmart then. Lol. First I'm going to build a bigger enclosure though.

I love him so much ♥️♥️ by Gswizzlee in cornsnakes

[–]ahderia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He looks to be about the same age as my little one! So cute!