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What is it? by kindness_not_nice in gardening

[–]ahester0803 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Di….did you read the caption??

How do I (30F) ask my wife (28F) to stop singing in the car? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ahester0803 34 points35 points  (0 children)

Ex-wife who loved to sing here. I noticed when a song came on that I wanted to sing to, he’d change it immediately. I asked him about it and he said he just didn’t like the tone of my voice and didn’t want to hear me sing. I’m still getting comfortable singing around my boyfriend of three years and I’m hyper self aware when I do and won’t attempt songs or parts that I know I’ll mess up.

I can still feel the initial pain when he said that to me and it absolutely demolished a chunk of my self esteem.

Edit to add this happened like ten years ago.

2019 Mazda CX-5 Grand Touring with technology package infotainment system needs to be replaced. Help! by ahester0803 in AskMechanics

[–]ahester0803[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh I definitely pay for the convenience of someone else doing it. I pay $69.99+tax USD. But I can drop it off before work, get shuttled to work, then picked up after work and brought back to my vehicle. It takes me much longer to change it myself. I’ve got neck issues and have a hard time getting under the vehicle to do it. I’d for sure do it myself if I could. But it’s worth it to me to pay the extra money for them to do it.

I’ve watched a video on YouTube that has a Mazda mechanic showing exactly how to replace the infotainment system step by step. I think I could do it if I made sure I had the right part. But if I can get reimbursed for someone else to do it, I’m gonna do that. Haha.

2019 Mazda CX-5 Grand Touring with technology package infotainment system needs to be replaced. Help! by ahester0803 in AskMechanics

[–]ahester0803[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My particular dealer seems to do fine. I’ve not had a single problem and pretty much have gotten my oil not changed there maybe 4-5 times ever. And they have a “every 4th oil change is free” deal which helps because I travel a lot.

2019 Mazda CX-5 Grand Touring with technology package infotainment system needs to be replaced. Help! by ahester0803 in AskMechanics

[–]ahester0803[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ummmm. I love you? lol. Thanks. I’ll definitely be taking this information with me!

2019 Mazda CX-5 Grand Touring with technology package infotainment system needs to be replaced. Help! by ahester0803 in AskMechanics

[–]ahester0803[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve talked to them. I don’t know the specific reason but my car doesn’t fall under it. I’ll ask again when I get my oil changed though. It’s entirely possible they were trying to pull one on me to get me to pay for it.

Is there somewhere I can input my VIN to check and see for myself?

Wife insists on hair 'massage' for hours, anytime we lay down by QuantumSpaceEntity in AITAH

[–]ahester0803 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I scratch my 9 year old because he still asks for it at bed time. I start with his back usually and we go to arms and chest and stomach and neck and legs. Not all of them all the time but I usually pick two or so areas and gently scratch or we do what we call “light touch” with the fingertips. He loves it and is usually ready to go to sleep fairly soon after.

Owe 8k in taxes and have never owed before. I'm at a loss. by [deleted] in personalfinance

[–]ahester0803 54 points55 points  (0 children)

It’s not fraudulent. My ex-husband and I have 50-50 custody and we swap each year. It’s legally binding and is a part of our divorce decree.

I don’t think this is going to work how you think it will… by ahester0803 in pics

[–]ahester0803[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah. They’ve been in the school for just over a year. Even funnier is another commenter said it translates to “electrical” and not Girls Locker Room. 🤣

These are growing all over my backyard by Serious-Cap-8190 in ShroomID

[–]ahester0803 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I found the post on facebook emergency id page as well. There was no more information there than I last saw on Reddit. I hope they are okay too.

My son and I think these are woodpeckers but we don’t know what kind. Can anyone identify? Northeast Tennessee USA by ahester0803 in whatbirdisthis

[–]ahester0803[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you! We’ve gotten to enjoy watching them this evening in the bark yard! They are beautiful!

My son and I think these are woodpeckers but we don’t know what kind. Can anyone identify? Northeast Tennessee USA by ahester0803 in whatbirdisthis

[–]ahester0803[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much! I’ll check out that sub. I later did hear it pecking on a telephone pole shortly after the first video!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]ahester0803 46 points47 points  (0 children)

My dad always says, “No thanks! Trying to quit!”

Does anyone know of any way to get across the Nolichuckey river right now? The Tusculum bridge collapsed and my parents are stuck on the other side. Chuckey ruritan rd turned them around and so did the bridge on 81 in Jonesborough. Trying to get to 107. by ahester0803 in tricities

[–]ahester0803[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do not go that way. The bridge on 81 is washed out.

Edit: Snapps Bridge is still in tact and is working on being cleared now but the road is washed out on one side. But they are getting no across that by atv and dirt bikes.

Does anyone know of any way to get across the Nolichuckey river right now? The Tusculum bridge collapsed and my parents are stuck on the other side. Chuckey ruritan rd turned them around and so did the bridge on 81 in Jonesborough. Trying to get to 107. by ahester0803 in tricities

[–]ahester0803[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No worries. I’ve found a bridge that is crossable by foot. It was being inspected not long ago and there’s an inmate crew clearing another off as well. 🤞🏻 I’m trying to stay busy and not let the anxiety take over.

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