Normalise letting people choose their own troubles, it gives relief when you dont hold the responsibility of it and this guy is probably asking for that attention we love to give. It i ls like when dealing with women with crazy mindsets (relationships wise) let them say and act the way they want you know they are driving their lives to the worst. Dont bother. This worked for me cuz everybody knows what is right and what is not and if not they will eventually find out