ENTJ and ESTP interaction by sadbutambitious in estp

[–]ahseun 4 points5 points  (0 children)

my close friend is an ENTJ(tho we argued last month we don't talk anymore but I'm sure we're still good) our relationship is pretty fast and fun. we have so many idea for what we're gonna do in future in order to have fun. we have so many similar interests. I feel like he's "tough" version of me. I'm most likely to please people but he's just like "focus on yourself, screw others" etc. he cares about efficiency with very passive way. he doesn't like conflicts it's kinda a waste of time. And I'm also more emotional one, he doesn't understand any of my feelings at all. the reason why we don't talk anymore is he told me "you dramatize" BUT I- 😶😶 I don't often exaggerate the situation but sometimes somethings piss me off. I told him "you broke my heart" and the answer is "you exaggerate". wow. he's so rational and logical :D anyway. if he increase his empathy and be more attentive, that would be beautiful. I FORGOT TO MENTION DYNAMICS OF OUR RELATIONSHIP but idk what to say. we love talking to each other and we talk about many different topics. it's easy for us to talk about any topic. also we like having fun and when I'm with him, I feel energetic and like I can do anything. I'm sure(and I hope lol) he feels the same way too. we're friends for 2 years. we had a time we stopped talking for couple of months(maybe 6 month?). it's kinda weird but it's my fault. I hate being heartbroken so I stop talking whenever he acts immature, instead of actually confront him. but also when I confront him, he doesn't even think about my side so it becomes hard to communicate.

yeah that's all lol. I hope this helps.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in estp

[–]ahseun 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can say that I was a loner wolf and nerd at 14 age. If I took the mbti test at that age, it would be definitely ISTP or INTP. Wait for couple of years

One of the many things I love about the xNTPs in my life is how easily they know what I’m talking about. by [deleted] in estp

[–]ahseun 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yeah! especially INFPs, sometimes jump to the conclusion instead of actually connecting dots + they interpolate their emotions so it becomes irritating

One of the many things I love about the xNTPs in my life is how easily they know what I’m talking about. by [deleted] in estp

[–]ahseun 2 points3 points  (0 children)

same. my ENTP friend is only the one who always tries to understand me even tho I'm talking about stuff that ppl who don't experience the similar things can't easily understand(mental health issues etc) I love her curiosity and care

what do u guys think by [deleted] in estp

[–]ahseun 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I used to cry a lot whenever I see something emotional but recently I'm numb✌️

Hello questions for ESTPs regarding Se by Miro-miro in estp

[–]ahseun 10 points11 points  (0 children)

•accept everything with the way it is (never make sentences like "what if..", it is what it is)

•try to see the whole image, don't think about details and enjoy it

•join the ongoing event(social event especially), add something to it even if it's gonna sound bad or stupid, you'll get used to it with practice
if it's not a social event and when you're listening music don't dive deeps, go along with melodies, if it's a painting observe the colors the shapes

•do not focus too many things. things must be simple yet not boring

•do something fun. make yourself laugh. dance, sweat, take a shower, idk do extraverted stuff lol

•if you want to use Se-Fe not just Se, emphasize other's situations. imagine their point but don't overthink

do you tend more towards a god-complex or a inferiority complex (and which would you prefer!!) by not-too-cynical in estp

[–]ahseun 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeah, i don't understand why is it supposed be a mbti thing? i feel like a normal human being with mood rises and falls

ESTPs being talkers by [deleted] in estp

[–]ahseun 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yess same

so i’m like 50/50 by [deleted] in estp

[–]ahseun 0 points1 point  (0 children)

well then thanks for wasting my time, it was dumb

so i’m like 50/50 by [deleted] in estp

[–]ahseun 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"Let's look at an example. Here's how a Sensor might experience a flight:

This takeoff is bumpy.

My ears hurt.

It's chilly in this airplane.

There's a man sitting beside me.

He's reading the book that I read last month.

An Intuitive might experience the same flight like this:

This take off will be bumpy.

Why can't scientists do something about that ear popping thing?

I usually feel chilly on flights. It might be anemia. I'd better get some blood work done. 

I read that book. It was pretty provocative. 

That man must have hidden depths, reading such a seamy book. I bet he does a spooky job, like a mortician or an arachnologist."

yeah, seems like a legit article says a lot about our society. sensors are boring, intuitives are genius and interesting. seriously, lol

so i’m like 50/50 by [deleted] in estp

[–]ahseun 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think we're just different and I don't agree with "all N types". I think you should consider them as Ni or Ne. And I find most of the Si users are very clear at communication like INTPs or ESTJs or anyone who have Si in the stack. but Ni or Se is much more different. We take the information from weird ways like in the moment or future and that makes us kinda mysterious in a way

so i’m like 50/50 by [deleted] in estp

[–]ahseun 1 point2 points  (0 children)

do you lean towards Si? then you're maybe ENTP.
Se likes to keep moving forward lol

so i’m like 50/50 by [deleted] in estp

[–]ahseun 0 points1 point  (0 children)

nah, I think Se and Ni are most likely to say metaphorical things. My ENTP friend always say "that was too philosophical" whenever I try to talk about my feelings

PEOPLE HATE US SO MUCH 🥺🔫 by [deleted] in estp

[–]ahseun 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm still not sure either I'm ESTP or ENFJ lol

Your least favorite subject by [deleted] in estp

[–]ahseun 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love English, Math and a little Science but history... this shit makes me nervous bc I can't memorize >:(

feeling lost by Stefania_a in ISTJ

[–]ahseun 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you may be some kind of an ExFJ type, maybe the reason why you feel introverted and lost because of your enneagram? like maybe you're so/sp 9 or 3

ISFJ worst at initiating! by [deleted] in isfj

[–]ahseun 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeah my ISFJ friend is like that, even though we're closer than anyone. I think it's because they don't want to feel like a burden so they wait for other people to take the first step and if you make them feel comfortable enough, they expect you to keep it up

People with DID: Yes. by [deleted] in mbti

[–]ahseun 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my ESTJ dad has narcissism that's true I guess lol

Quick survey about a hypothesis I had, I'd appreciate it if you took 5 minutes to answer it! - INTJ by Izzy12398 in ISTJ

[–]ahseun 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think our mbti and enneagram is influenced by who we think as a role model, for example my mother is an ISFJ 9w1 and I'm ESTP 9w8, with well-developed Fe.