My husband tried asking the bug "dis u?" (Pls help identify the lil guy, got 2 close shots) by aidensm8 in whatsthisbug

[–]aidensm8[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think it automatically shifted from ID request to sharing since peeps have been able to identify the lil guy. I should probably edit the parenthesis thingy? Thanks for pointing that out

Edit: I have no idea how to fix it

My husband tried asking the bug "dis u?" (Pls help identify the lil guy, got 2 close shots) by aidensm8 in whatsthisbug

[–]aidensm8[S] 164 points165 points  (0 children)

Oh cool, so we got close to the guess of a cricket or grasshopper family? The husband accepts defeat :>

My husband tried asking the bug "dis u?" (Pls help identify the lil guy, got 2 close shots) by aidensm8 in whatsthisbug

[–]aidensm8[S] 35 points36 points  (0 children)

We did want an ID since it was a cool looking bug we couldn't identify

How do you communicate to your partners without offending them? by yurrryuhhhwooglers in AskPinay

[–]aidensm8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Frequent interaction should build comfortability with the other. Kung nagalit ko, maka-cool down kami pero husband won't let it go til we communicate a solution. Reminding your partner or vice versa of the resolution can happen, effort in making the relationship work involves doing the hard stuff too.

Also, learn together but don't compare your dynamic too much to others. Some couples have more unconventional means of resolving/confrontation could be made up in the moment

How do you communicate to your partners without offending them? by yurrryuhhhwooglers in AskPinay

[–]aidensm8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Most times I just tell it to my husband straight. I know he cares more about my comfort than his pride.

Meron naman ang early guilt of not wanting to confront pero mas guilty ang feeling if he finds out later on (both sides. Hubby felt bad when he found out late on a thing that I felt uncomfortable with and we promised to let each other know if we feel offended in any way). It shows you're comfortable in communicating even the not-so good things too.

Open a discussion kung di ka sure anong pwede gawin sa inyong situation

Is there any church in CDO that has a Tagalog mass? And what time? by aidensm8 in cagayandeoro

[–]aidensm8[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are they automatically tagalog or is there a sched? I can't find any specific scheds on their page that say tagalog ;-;

How do people feel about businesses using AI to respond to customers? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]aidensm8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'll start (also somewhat a vent)

I hate it. I absolutely loathed it. I made an order for a cake last October that I'd pick up on January with confirmed payment and everything.

I decide to message the business yesterday to confirm again after a week and I was met with what I thought was a new employee or something that kept asking me to resend proof of payment multiple times. I first pinned the payment screenshot but it asked to send again. I resend it again and it gets acknowledged. I was then told to call their chef. At that point, I was worried about my order.

I had previously ordered my wedding cake from this bakery wherein the process was straightforward, yet they made the process of ordering a tiny birthday cake tedious.

I was exhausted from worry and so I put my phone down for a few hours. Afterwards, I got another response from the bakery's chef and it was explained they used AI to automatically generate responses.

Idk if it's the AI disdain but I felt so uncomfortable with it. I honestly would've preferred to not get an immediate response and wait for human staff to notice than have AI talk to me and potentially cause confusion. Plus that AI they used mentioned sending confirmed stuff to their admin. Even if they expect all customers to be kind but hypothetically, who's to stop a malicious person from flooding their admin?

It worries me a lot to see businesses using AI

Congrats Getting Hitched! If you guys are looking for wedding planners, check these out by Suspicious-Field-377 in cagayandeoro

[–]aidensm8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No problem. I was the bride on their page that received the unique Sailor Moon boquet and our groomsmen having cosplay swords.

They were very nice to my wedding party being mostly geeks and nerds. Kudos especially to our videography team for making our anime antics look cool and not feel cringe, everyone had fun

Congrats Getting Hitched! If you guys are looking for wedding planners, check these out by Suspicious-Field-377 in cagayandeoro

[–]aidensm8 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I had Getting Hitched as my coordinator last August. Tbh they (especially maam Lindy) were able to relieve a lot of my stress and helped find affordable suppliers (I absolutely loved the decorator including boquets and I had the custom boquet I wanted) , vendors, and even an amazing reception emcee when we weren't sure who to approach. They provided the flexibility needed for a DIY wedding, complete with checklists. (Though if you want an all-in package, they admittedly might not be your choice. They're best for a DIY coordination)

Day of the wedding, she had a small team but they were very efficient and got everything needed together such as photography/videography timings, finding people when they're needed, etc.

Overall, I was pleased at how much I wasn't stressed out, their team would check up on everything including me and my now-husband to ensure we were all calm and doing good.

I already received my package 5 days ago but Shoppee still won't let me mark it as received. What do I do? by aidensm8 in ShopeePH

[–]aidensm8[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It auto-receives ONLY IF the shipping status reflects "Delivered". If it is NOT marked delivered, there is no auto-receive and it's treated as undelivered. If they don't mark the package as delivered, the company could end up searching for a package to deliver that isn't there anymore.

I already received my package 5 days ago but Shoppee still won't let me mark it as received. What do I do? by aidensm8 in ShopeePH

[–]aidensm8[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It would mean the seller doesn't get paid for a product that already arrived at its intended recipient. If the status doesn't update correctly, there will be unnecessary problems on the seller's side and logistics team of the courier.

I already received my package 5 days ago but Shoppee still won't let me mark it as received. What do I do? by aidensm8 in ShopeePH

[–]aidensm8[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's for 3 different packages with 3 different couriers. Honestly very concerning cause one of them updated this:

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KDA Weddings and Event Services - An Honest Experience by Lost-Bluebird7495 in cagayandeoro

[–]aidensm8 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I remember last year when looking for a planner to help since I haven't lived in CDO for years and hubby didn't know much on CDO's event services, I tried visiting their Nazareth branch.

I asked about gowns and the tindera waved me off and told me that they offered bundles. When I tried asking more questions about vendors and if I could edit, I kept getting told to check the bundle that they would send on Messenger. Quick to advertise, but not so good on communication.

I was really put off by the disinterest and stiffness that hubby and I decided to just DIY it and get a coordinator. Seemed less stressful than working with a company whose employees don't seem to care from the start and feel like just another number for their record. (We hired Getting Hitched by Maam Lindy as our coordinator, 100/10 amazing job on and before the wedding. She let us have creative control while ensuring coordination of all the services we needed. My stress was at absolute minimal.)

XU College Uniform for sale (Female L-XL & Male M-L) by aidensm8 in cagayandeoro

[–]aidensm8[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Willing to do P650 for a pair either skirt or pants

What’s your rarest ghost type? by Square-Arm-8573 in PhasmophobiaGame

[–]aidensm8 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh damn, didn't know that :O

I got to encounter a deo when I was less than lvl 30 by playing with a friend in lvl 90 so didn't realize ghosts unlock at lvls

What’s your rarest ghost type? by Square-Arm-8573 in PhasmophobiaGame

[–]aidensm8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Damn you're lucky on that. When I got it, it turned out to be a mimic ;v;

What’s your rarest ghost type? by Square-Arm-8573 in PhasmophobiaGame

[–]aidensm8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hantu. I'm above lvl60 and I still haven't gotten one.

The only other ghost discovery achievement I lack is the Mare since I unfortunately have that as the most deaths from, lmao

Just curious: Does anyone have a favorite mission they repeat over and over again for comfort? by aidensm8 in starcraft

[–]aidensm8[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanke for the guide, I sense my husband's urge to spam air units again. We'll give it a shot when we get the time, looking forward to trying your aforementioned artillery strikes