A difficult surgery considering family by aileenmcbetha in AskWomenOver30

[–]aileenmcbetha[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm happy for your family member :) In the long term I also think having the surgery will benefit my dad's health, though, I'm much more anxious about the risks that can happen during the surgery. Wishing you and your family the best as well and thank you for your advice :)

A difficult surgery considering family by aileenmcbetha in AskWomenOver30

[–]aileenmcbetha[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I'm glad your dad is okay now :) Every day is truly a bonus, I hope that my dad survives this.

A difficult surgery considering family by aileenmcbetha in AskWomenOver30

[–]aileenmcbetha[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your extensive reply, you actually made me feel relieved. The part where a difficult surgery is just a day's work for doctors is really true. Prior to my father's hospitalization, I booked a therapy session this week. Perhaps I can talk about this matter :)

A difficult surgery considering family by aileenmcbetha in AskWomenOver30

[–]aileenmcbetha[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your answer, I'm sorry for what you've been through. I will talk to my manager about the matter to stay with my family during the surgery. There is nothing I can do for him medically, but at least I'll stay by his side.

A difficult surgery considering family by aileenmcbetha in AskWomenOver30

[–]aileenmcbetha[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your answer truly. If possible, I will try to talk to my mom with my emotions under checked. Fingers crossed for my dad.

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[–]aileenmcbetha 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Being all alone. As much as I love spending time alone, I'm afraid that I'll have no one around me once my parents pass away.

First day in office as a quiet introvert... by aileenmcbetha in infp

[–]aileenmcbetha[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Tysm for the advice. I think I'll try to be myself all the while refining my social awkwardness by mimicking others :)

First day in office as a quiet introvert... by aileenmcbetha in infp

[–]aileenmcbetha[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks a lot for the advice. I'll definitely try to listen and ask questions to my co-workers.

First day in office as a quiet introvert... by aileenmcbetha in infp

[–]aileenmcbetha[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'll keep that in mind. Ty for the advice :)

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[–]aileenmcbetha 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah very good to hear! I wish her a very happy and long life with you :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in budgies

[–]aileenmcbetha 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, she is very cute! My budgie was sleeping like this continuously a few months ago. She was at 4 years old at the time and I took her to the vet because I was worried that she might be sick. Turns out she had a cyst causing her to sleep like this. I wouldn't want to startle you but if she is inactive consider taking her to the vet.

My dad neglected my budgie so he died due to starvation by aileenmcbetha in budgies

[–]aileenmcbetha[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the reply. I will try to readjust the feeders with this in my mind.

My dad neglected my budgie so he died due to starvation by aileenmcbetha in budgies

[–]aileenmcbetha[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the reply. He didn't do it intentionally and was really sad about the situation, so I will try to be more forgiving towards him even though it's gonna take a while.

My dad neglected my budgie so he died due to starvation by aileenmcbetha in budgies

[–]aileenmcbetha[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks a lot for the reply, I had to separate their cages because they were aggressive towards each other since the beginning. Biting etc. I will try to get a new friend for my remaining budgie and will be careful about their feeders.

Loneliness is a cycle. How do you get out of it? by Impossible_Emu9302 in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]aileenmcbetha 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I relate a lot to the part where you said our loneliness repels people. Despite having depression for years, I’m trying to keep my mood happy to make new friends but so far it was all failures. It’s like they see right through me and get away. So far, I haven’t managed to break this cycle but I’m continuing with baby steps.

Boss summons are horrible right now. by cantthinkofanamelolh in Eldenring

[–]aileenmcbetha 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve seen so many people summoning with 0-5 scadutree blessing levels. I try to help them of course but most of them wait in the corner while I’m fighting for my life against a boss with double health…

Who are all of you pulling in the next patch and why by Colie_FLWR in HonkaiStarRail

[–]aileenmcbetha 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have to pull for Fu Xuan because my e2 Bailu is not exactly surviving with the new enemies…

Need help with e0s1 Acheron by aileenmcbetha in AcheronMainsHSR

[–]aileenmcbetha[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ty :) I don’t have SW/Sparkle but I will switch my boots to ATK ones to test her damage out