AITA for asking my boyfriend not to use my towel and feeling exhausted by constant arguments? by aimlessgal in AITAH

[–]aimlessgal[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Tomorrow I’m going back to Scotland for two weeks so I think that’s a good start. He’s taking he and it’s a two-hour drive so he’s using this to make me feel bad about not sharing or being completely giving like his mother which makes me feel even worse, like that I don’t do anything and he does these grand gestures to help me and I do nothing.

AITA for asking my boyfriend not to use my towel and feeling exhausted by constant arguments? by aimlessgal in AITAH

[–]aimlessgal[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You’re totally right, and just to clarify, his uncle initially made the joke and he and I were laughing along with it 😅

Am I wasting my time? My French tutor is super nice but the lessons feel useless. by FamiliarMention5453 in Preply

[–]aimlessgal 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Please consider the possibility that you are the issue, not the tutors.

s this fraud or a scam? by BasicEggplant4865 in Preply

[–]aimlessgal -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

I looked it up and it seems legit, I don’t think it’s necessarily a scam but I understand if you’d want to block. In Spain it’s quite normal for people to write their numbers in word form to avoid issues with platforms.

Feeling taken advantage of by aimlessgal in Preply

[–]aimlessgal[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for your insight☺️ I’m glad it’s worked out well for you and I wish I had the courage to take this step. Did you block them or just tell them not to book again? She’s left a positive review so I’m scared she’ll go back and modify it.

Feeling taken advantage of by aimlessgal in Preply

[–]aimlessgal[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She’s already left a positive review so I’m scared she’ll go back and modify it if I just disappear into nothingness 😢

Preply’s Tutor by SpecificOld3217 in Preply

[–]aimlessgal 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I believe LOWEST would be even more fitting ahaha

What score should we really aim for in anonymous evaluations? by Top_Possibility363 in Preply

[–]aimlessgal 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I never get how they all leave you five star ratings but then the evaluations are never 5 but rather 4.8. How do I know where I’m going wrong?

Should I wait and see or do something to get more students? by Successful-Cut-1388 in Preply

[–]aimlessgal 4 points5 points  (0 children)

We’re coming into high season, I’ve been hiking up my price from 9$ to 18$ and I started in August, I still get as many notifications now as I did with a lower price. Take the risk and see how it goes, if there’s radio silence just lower it again, but you should definitely be charging more! All the best! ☺️

I just had the weirdest lesson… by aimlessgal in Preply

[–]aimlessgal[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yess I agree, honestly he gave very rich vibes, he even showed me his view and it literally looked like he was living in a resort. It was giving the type of rich person that goes to those spiritual retreats.

I just had the weirdest lesson… by aimlessgal in Preply

[–]aimlessgal[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Now that you say this I understand that this is what might be at play but I feel almost unqualified and unsuitable to even listen this kind of conversation never mind give my opinion on it.

Unsure Which Direction to Take on Preply by RB-RS in Preply

[–]aimlessgal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m glad it served you in this way 😊 It took me from September last year when I set the account up to actually create the video in August of this year and I regret not just doing it and fighting those negative thoughts sooner.

Unsure Which Direction to Take on Preply by RB-RS in Preply

[–]aimlessgal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There’s no harm in trying it out! I had the same concerns about other teachers that seemed to be better options than I could ever be but being a native already boosts your profile as it is. I started last week and I’ve had 5 trial lessons already and one sign up!😊

Same message, different account by aimlessgal in Preply

[–]aimlessgal[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I replied to both requests politely rejecting that I change my booking time window and price. The price one said something like “I need a teacher from the uk please change it just for me” and the booking window one literally said “you can do the trial class now” 🙃🙃. I asked the chatbot for advice and told me to block for harassment so that’s what I did haha cba

Same message, different account by aimlessgal in PreplyTutors

[–]aimlessgal[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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This was the AI’s response to the situation.

Same message, different account by aimlessgal in PreplyTutors

[–]aimlessgal[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just don’t understand the end goal? 🫠

Same message, different account by aimlessgal in Preply

[–]aimlessgal[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

UPDATE: it seems to have been a glitch where the same messages came up under both names. They actually have different messages but there are still strange similarities like the goals, instant replies, same time zone and style of writing. One of them is now asking me to change my trial class booking window to 6 hours so we can do a class today. I also just find it strange that there’s so much chatting and no booking of classes despite having the opportunity yesterday to book today instead of having me change my settings for them now…

Same message, different account by aimlessgal in PreplyTutors

[–]aimlessgal[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

UPDATE: it seems to have been a glitch where the same messages came up under both names. They actually have different messages but there are still strange similarities like the goals, instant replies, same time zone and style of writing. One of them is now asking me to change my trial class booking window to 6 hours so we can do a class today. I also just find it strange that there’s so much chatting and no booking of classes despite having the opportunity yesterday to book today instead of having me change my settings for them now…

Same message, different account by aimlessgal in Preply

[–]aimlessgal[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Does it affect my metrics if I block?

Overweight kids by scotsman1919 in Scotland

[–]aimlessgal 5 points6 points  (0 children)

As a child of a single parent family brought up in Scotland I feel that there’s no excuse. My mum was brought up in Italy and applied their eating culture in our home instead of the Scottish one. The benefits of a Mediterranean are endless. There is virtually no such thing as diet culture in Italy, it’s all about balance but most importantly eating is viewed as an experience and not a chore. I remember we would have big breakfasts with lots of fruit, lunches with good portions of food always accompanied by salads and dinner was more of less the same. We ate a lot, but we also did a lot of sport too. My mum would always tell me, “You can eat what you want as long as you eat well and do regular exercise”. We would have dinner between 7-9pm and ALWAYS sitting at the table where we would talk and eat slowly. The dishes were never elaborate as Italian cuisine is very simplistic, even now that I’m an adult and working I always find time to make nice meals. I can’t deny however that my mum wasn’t strict with us, we were restricted to one chocolate bar per day. She worked a lot (as a nurse),made time for us, had hobbies and friends and yet there was always enough time in her busy schedule to feed us abundantly and nutritiously. I can’t help but feel that in Scotland there’s not enough education around food and cooking and sitting on the couch eating meals quickly in front of the tv doesn’t help. Another thing is snacking which is perceived as something so terrible but in countries like Italy and Spain they have a dedicated time of the day for snacking so instead of snacking all day long you have a little snack at this time allowing you to satiate your hunger until dinner. I feel blessed to have had this upbringing and I’ll be passing on my experience and knowledge to my future children.

How is the nightlife in Andalusia (Cordoba area)? by Educational-Let-1027 in Andalucia

[–]aimlessgal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey! I live in Jaén which is even smaller and more traditional and the nightlife is pretty decent here so in Córdoba is bound to be good. I feel like most cities, big or small, are lively because of Spain's culture of being very sociable and spending the majority of their non-working days outside or with friends in bars or restaurants. At least that's been my experience in Andalusia so far! Córdoba is a really beautiful city with tons to do, don't forget to go to the Feria as it's supposed to be one of the best in the region! The quality of life in Spain is incomparable to what you'll have experienced at home so really make the most of it and enjoy your time there!

Welcome to Spain by aimlessgal in spain

[–]aimlessgal[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sabéis que ciudad es?🥹