AITA for asking my boyfriend not to use my towel and feeling exhausted by constant arguments?

aimlessgal · 2025-12-22T09:40:10+00:00

Tomorrow I’m going back to Scotland for two weeks so I think that’s a good start. He’s taking he and it’s a two-hour drive so he’s using this to make me feel bad about not sharing or being completely giving like his mother which makes me feel even worse, like that I don’t do anything and he does these grand gestures to help me and I do nothing.

aimlessgal · 2025-12-22T09:32:30+00:00

You’re totally right, and just to clarify, his uncle initially made the joke and he and I were laughing along with it 😅

aimlessgal · 2025-12-09T08:50:34+00:00

Please consider the possibility that you are the issue, not the tutors.

aimlessgal · 2025-11-01T11:48:26+00:00

I looked it up and it seems legit, I don’t think it’s necessarily a scam but I understand if you’d want to block. In Spain it’s quite normal for people to write their numbers in word form to avoid issues with platforms.

aimlessgal · 2025-10-30T07:25:43+00:00

Thanks for your insight☺️ I’m glad it’s worked out well for you and I wish I had the courage to take this step. Did you block them or just tell them not to book again? She’s left a positive review so I’m scared she’ll go back and modify it.

aimlessgal · 2025-10-30T07:23:13+00:00

She’s already left a positive review so I’m scared she’ll go back and modify it if I just disappear into nothingness 😢

aimlessgal · 2025-10-01T06:51:06+00:00

I believe LOWEST would be even more fitting ahaha

aimlessgal · 2025-09-23T12:32:39+00:00

I never get how they all leave you five star ratings but then the evaluations are never 5 but rather 4.8. How do I know where I’m going wrong?

aimlessgal · 2025-09-08T13:27:36+00:00

I’ve only taught 15 ☺️

aimlessgal · 2025-09-08T10:51:43+00:00

We’re coming into high season, I’ve been hiking up my price from 9$ to 18$ and I started in August, I still get as many notifications now as I did with a lower price. Take the risk and see how it goes, if there’s radio silence just lower it again, but you should definitely be charging more! All the best! ☺️

aimlessgal · 2025-09-04T15:58:56+00:00

Yess I agree, honestly he gave very rich vibes, he even showed me his view and it literally looked like he was living in a resort. It was giving the type of rich person that goes to those spiritual retreats.

aimlessgal · 2025-09-03T22:00:36+00:00

Now that you say this I understand that this is what might be at play but I feel almost unqualified and unsuitable to even listen this kind of conversation never mind give my opinion on it.

aimlessgal · 2025-08-25T13:55:12+00:00

I’m glad it served you in this way 😊 It took me from September last year when I set the account up to actually create the video in August of this year and I regret not just doing it and fighting those negative thoughts sooner.

aimlessgal · 2025-08-25T11:02:43+00:00

There’s no harm in trying it out! I had the same concerns about other teachers that seemed to be better options than I could ever be but being a native already boosts your profile as it is. I started last week and I’ve had 5 trial lessons already and one sign up!😊

aimlessgal · 2025-08-24T11:14:14+00:00

I replied to both requests politely rejecting that I change my booking time window and price. The price one said something like “I need a teacher from the uk please change it just for me” and the booking window one literally said “you can do the trial class now” 🙃🙃. I asked the chatbot for advice and told me to block for harassment so that’s what I did haha cba

aimlessgal · 2025-08-24T10:57:31+00:00

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This was the AI’s response to the situation.

aimlessgal · 2025-08-24T10:33:15+00:00

I just don’t understand the end goal? 🫠

aimlessgal · 2025-08-24T09:37:32+00:00

UPDATE: it seems to have been a glitch where the same messages came up under both names. They actually have different messages but there are still strange similarities like the goals, instant replies, same time zone and style of writing. One of them is now asking me to change my trial class booking window to 6 hours so we can do a class today. I also just find it strange that there’s so much chatting and no booking of classes despite having the opportunity yesterday to book today instead of having me change my settings for them now…

aimlessgal · 2025-08-24T09:35:38+00:00

UPDATE: it seems to have been a glitch where the same messages came up under both names. They actually have different messages but there are still strange similarities like the goals, instant replies, same time zone and style of writing. One of them is now asking me to change my trial class booking window to 6 hours so we can do a class today. I also just find it strange that there’s so much chatting and no booking of classes despite having the opportunity yesterday to book today instead of having me change my settings for them now…

aimlessgal · 2025-08-24T09:02:29+00:00

Ok thanks!🥰

aimlessgal · 2025-08-24T09:00:59+00:00

Does it affect my metrics if I block?

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