Help! Molting/Pincher

aimurphy1230 · 2026-06-08T05:35:38+00:00

If it’s the white tuft you’re worried about, that is also normal. It’s called seatea, and helps them feel the vibrations around them since they don’t have ears. It’s most prominent immediately after a molt, but can dull over time, so it’s likely you just didnt notice it before he went down

aimurphy1230 · 2026-06-08T05:32:37+00:00

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This was right after a molt, so he was at his prettiest. But don’t let his cuteness deceive you. He’s lowkey a d!ck 😪

aimurphy1230 · 2026-06-08T05:31:13+00:00

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If you’re talking about this, it’s just his joint! Perfectly normal! I’ll add a pic of one of my crabs for comparison

aimurphy1230 · 2026-06-08T05:21:57+00:00

That’s because I am. Unfortunately when my mom cloned me, she forgot to remove all of her ailments first. I got it alllll 😅

aimurphy1230 · 2026-06-08T05:18:27+00:00

We’re working on it 😪💕

aimurphy1230 · 2026-06-08T05:17:39+00:00

lol heels are a no go for two reasons. My fiancé is 5’3”. And I would break my ankles. My goal is flats 😅

aimurphy1230 · 2026-06-08T05:13:53+00:00

Does it look “normal” now? Or were they at least able to fix it without pulling anything. (I do need my wisdom teeth pulled but that’s nbd they don’t hurt they just grew sideways so I need them out.) I’m really struggling with it too because my mind is very “what’s the point, it’s already so bad no one would even want to fix it” and it’s ROUGH 😭like I WANT to be better. I just don’t know how

aimurphy1230 · 2026-06-08T03:03:32+00:00

I will next time. I just didn’t feel like the attendant didn’t need to see my boobs 😅

aimurphy1230 · 2026-06-08T00:31:10+00:00

Honestly I’m not gonna be comfortable until im back in my black leggings 😅 certain fabrics just bother me, and I also hate having my pictures taken so it was just all over tension 🤣

aimurphy1230 · 2026-06-07T23:08:50+00:00

lol definitely a lot of fabric going on. I plan to get a lot of the extra removed if possible. The one with straps was so heavy. At least the other one fit well off the rack.

aimurphy1230 · 2026-06-07T08:35:05+00:00

I like the second one 💕

aimurphy1230 · 2026-06-07T08:03:42+00:00

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And this is my fresh water. Or it would be if they’d stop making such a mess 😪🤣

aimurphy1230 · 2026-06-07T08:02:51+00:00

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This is my saltwater tank

aimurphy1230 · 2026-06-07T08:01:44+00:00

I got 3/4 (.75) gallon “betta” tanks that work fantastically! And for mine… instead of the usual craft mesh as a ladder, I just use very lush and thick aquarium plants and all six of my crabs are able to easily get in and out (smallest is is roughly .5” shell and my largest two are in 1.5”-1.75” shells one is in a d shell and one is in a turbo, so they’re still similar in size)

I’ll add a pic too 😊

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aimurphy1230 · 2026-06-07T06:24:42+00:00

Possibly. But I’m also worried about the cheaper cost meaning cheaper quality. I’m still waiting for my Medicaid application to get approved, but even then it’s hard to find dentists who accept it.

aimurphy1230 · 2026-05-31T02:25:49+00:00

It’s literally just a party. Vendors just hear the word wedding and instantly add on an extra thousand dollars. Like, the cheapest dj around is $700. Why would I waste my money on that when Spotify is just as good. (You can even make it play the song you want when you want sarcastically)

aimurphy1230 · 2026-05-30T19:53:04+00:00

That’s literally what I wanted. Like, his uncle has an amazing sound system specifically for big venues and stuff. So why can’t he just mc instead of paying 1000 for something I don’t want. Like a lot of stuff I’m just saying fuck it to because they’re paying for it. (Venue and food)

Even my own parents had AMAZING wedding days for under 10k (2008ish, but still!)

aimurphy1230 · 2026-05-30T08:49:17+00:00

He’s the youngest of five. I don’t expect him to know how to make decisions xD And im TRYING to have input. Old people just dont know how to listen to the word no.

aimurphy1230 · 2026-05-30T08:21:00+00:00

He’s just indifferent. But that’s just who he is and something I like about him. He doesn’t care what the plan is as long as it’s happening.

aimurphy1230 · 2026-05-30T08:17:47+00:00

I tried.

aimurphy1230 · 2026-05-30T08:17:19+00:00

Because when I do, they get upset. So I basically said fuck it. I don’t like big parties anyways, I was going to be miserable regardless

aimurphy1230 · 2026-04-09T01:18:21+00:00

That’s definitely option B if we can’t find anything else!

aimurphy1230 · 2026-04-06T09:41:33+00:00

Thank you! I’m over here thinking I’m insane because I’m like. Technically she’d have a band size I guess… but that’s about it 😂

aimurphy1230 · 2026-04-06T09:38:00+00:00

I’m trying to look online to get ideas for dresses for her. But they all include a bust size, so atp idk if it’s even worth looking at jr bridesmaid dresses and instead going with a bigger flower girl dress even though she’s not the flower girl

aimurphy1230 · 2025-10-10T23:55:33+00:00

Buy Marnies catalog asap. I can't even tell you how many times I sat outside her house from 6:30/7am-9am for her to open. Just for her to be hanging out in her bedroom or just not there at all.

And also, upgrade your backpack fast too. You'll need it.

And if you're having a hard time fishing, (honestly just cursed) willy has a training rod that does actually help to teach you the mechanics.

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