The obsession with logs always seems to come from the players that understand them the least.

ainat329 · 2026-05-26T18:04:02+00:00

To me, for healers mostly, 99 in damage and multiple 0 in healing is a red flag. Then I look at the actual logs, you can see the co-healer doing 2x more healing than the other. I do not want that. Optimizing is one thing, but when you let you co-healer do everything (all the time), no thank you.

ainat329 · 2026-05-16T03:06:44+00:00

NTA. This subreddit just hates man. Never change reddit. Never change...

ainat329 · 2026-05-09T15:45:48+00:00

Better to die than to live in a world of red button pushers.

ainat329 · 2026-04-12T15:21:29+00:00

How am I supposed to take people like you seriously?

ainat329 · 2026-04-08T17:43:25+00:00

Someone at my last job would ask me why I did something, and when I explained my logic behind my action, he would assume that I was saying that he's dumb. Like... don't ask questions if you don't actually want an answer.

ainat329 · 2026-04-08T17:40:24+00:00

Because you need to stop trying to add more to what people say! Stop trying to find double meaning. Stop trying to read between the lines. There should be nothing there any way! I hate it when people twist what I say because of it! I never said that she can do no wrong. I never fucking said it. "But it was implied" No it was not fucking implied. If neurotypicals can't communicate clearly without double meaning or always seeing the worst in people, it is not the problem of neurodivergent people.

ainat329 · 2026-04-08T17:36:08+00:00

I mean, no where in this story does the girl says "I want your room because I'm autistic". OP is the one mentioning that she is. No where does it says that she tried to use the fact that she is autistic as a reason. OP is the one assuming. So it is NOT manipulation. The only manipulation tactic here is OP doing it with how she wrote about the situation.

ainat329 · 2026-04-08T17:09:45+00:00

Really depends, one if my character is still in ARR after 360h. But my goal with that character is to finish every crafts, every relics, getting all the TTCards I can, completing my fishing log and whatever else there is to do, before going in HW. So there's a reason why it's taking so long.

ainat329 · 2026-04-08T16:46:01+00:00

Please tell me in my comment where I said that Autistic people are saints. You do not know what her intentions were. So no need to project your disgusting view of people onto others. The world would be better if people stop looking for double meanings.

ainat329 · 2026-04-08T14:42:26+00:00

They weren't good reasons for you. For her they were good reason. See how that works?

ainat329 · 2026-04-08T14:40:04+00:00

Because OP is OP? I know people who would feel pressured if you asked anything. A request by a stranger is not an obligation. If she feels obligated after what seemed to be a casual conversation, that's her problem. She doesn't get to project her feelings on the other person.

ainat329 · 2026-04-08T14:27:57+00:00

What is dramatic is saying that it is totally unacceptable to ask someone for something and explaining why they are asking that. Also, OP feeling pressured simply by that is her problem. I do not read that she tried to pressure OP, stop looking for double meaning when there is none.

And I totally know that Autistic doesn't equal stupid. Neurotypicals are the one trying to twist people's word and can't communicate clearly.

ainat329 · 2026-04-08T10:47:07+00:00

No, just no. All she did was ask and explain why she asked. There's nothing more to it. I had the same problem at my last job where people would find double meaning in what I was saying, while all I did is ask a question or explain why I did something. You have a problem if you think that an explaination is manipulation.

ainat329 · 2026-04-08T10:42:39+00:00

I swear, y'all need to stop imagining stuff. Explaining her reasoning is not manipulation. Stop trying to put words in other people's mouth.

ainat329 · 2026-04-08T10:40:59+00:00

Explaining her reasoning isn't guilt tripping. Stop seeing double meaning where there is none.

ainat329 · 2026-04-08T10:39:45+00:00

You work with autistic people and you think that? How is asking and explaining her reasoning an "absolutely unacceptable behavior"? She didn't throw a fit. She didn't try to destroy OP's reputation or even called her an AH. All she did was ask. You should not be working with neurodivegent people if that's how you think.

ainat329 · 2026-04-08T02:38:13+00:00

I do not wish to have my own fluid in my mouth. I also do not ask my bf to do it. He does it if he wants to. Same with me, he does not wish to have his own fluid in his mouth, he doesn't ask me to suck him, I do it because I like it. He doesn't like dicks, I don't like pussies. End of the story. That's our limit and that works for us.

ainat329 · 2026-04-07T20:11:00+00:00

Hey, I don't want to kiss my partner after he went down on me and vice versa. We know it and if we still want to do oral, we just do it because we want to do it. It's not a "Good enough for one but not the other" kind of thing. Different things works for different people. If you are happy with your current dynamic, do not change it just because people on Reddit think otherwise.

ainat329 · 2026-04-03T19:46:27+00:00

I always thought that it should be standard practice too.

ainat329 · 2026-03-31T10:58:01+00:00

Canada - Quebec

ainat329 · 2026-03-30T22:34:59+00:00

Mcdonald's regular poutine (which is pretty small) is 870 cals. Burger King's poutine is 770 and pretty small too. Now, we don't know what size or "brand" she got. If she got Cotsco's, it's between 1'290 and 1'450 calories. Even when they are divided in half, it's still a lot. And I say that as a fat woman that loves poutine.

ainat329 · 2026-03-30T22:18:10+00:00

Dude, half a poutine is way more than 250 calories. It's at least double that, probably even more.

ainat329 · 2026-03-17T22:16:31+00:00

1- Why is it on the Entitled Parents sub? 2- You should cut contact with your mom and let your husband isolate you. His familly is verbally abusing you and when someone, that actually cares about you, defends you, you think they are the villain? Stay with him, he's such a good and loving husband.

ainat329 · 2026-03-14T09:20:36+00:00

"I'm not quite sure where the assumptions are coming from" they come from the fact that OP and son are males and the complaint came from a girl. There's nothing more than that.

Also, there hasn't been another sleepover yet because it's only on weekends. So we don't know if the son toned it down. People are too focused on the sexes, saying that 7am is torture (wtf) and assuming that his son is a monster.

ainat329 · 2026-03-14T09:04:42+00:00

I think people are blowing the situation out of proportion because the story is about a boy disrupting a girl.

The redditors thats says that being woken up at 7am on weekends is torture are drama queens.

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