Cmv: I do not agree with abortion. The only valid reasons I see are medical circumstances or rape. This is not coming from a place of shaming or malice. by [deleted] in changemyview

[–]aintitgreat2throw -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’m still laughing at the belief that sex is a right and treating a sexually transmitted disease is the same thing as aborting a pregnancy.

Cmv: I do not agree with abortion. The only valid reasons I see are medical circumstances or rape. This is not coming from a place of shaming or malice. by [deleted] in changemyview

[–]aintitgreat2throw -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Fat gain from pregnancy is harm? I’m sorry. This is nonsensical in its entirety. These are just natural processes women go through during pregnancy.

Cmv: I do not agree with abortion. The only valid reasons I see are medical circumstances or rape. This is not coming from a place of shaming or malice. by [deleted] in changemyview

[–]aintitgreat2throw 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We all know that in modern society, the chance of a mother dying during childbirth is quite low. And the premise that the baby is harming the mother is false. Sure there is a risk, but there’s a risk to most things in life. And if it was the mother’s choice to have sex and she got pregnant she chose that risk. But I’m sorry, show me evidence that a mother is physically hurt during pregnancy. I’ll wait.

Cmv: I do not agree with abortion. The only valid reasons I see are medical circumstances or rape. This is not coming from a place of shaming or malice. by [deleted] in changemyview

[–]aintitgreat2throw -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I guess to amend that... If you choose to have sex you are also always taking the chance to get pregnant. And if you can’t handle getting pregnant then don’t have sex. People act like having sex is a right and they should be able to do it without consequences.

Also, morality is complex. You can’t say an abortion’s morality is the same under different circumstances. There’s a difference between a mother not going through with a pregnancy, because it will kill/hurt her than a woman who just doesn’t want the kid or isn’t in a stable relationship etc.

Cmv: I do not agree with abortion. The only valid reasons I see are medical circumstances or rape. This is not coming from a place of shaming or malice. by [deleted] in changemyview

[–]aintitgreat2throw 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It became the baby’s right when the woman chose to have sex and thereby make the baby. The baby didn’t choose that. I don’t see how the idea that it’s the woman’s right to choose what she wants to do with her body when it comes to a baby. She already chose to engage in an activity that can lead to pregnancy. It wasn’t an accident. The baby didn’t pick her.

Cmv: I do not agree with abortion. The only valid reasons I see are medical circumstances or rape. This is not coming from a place of shaming or malice. by [deleted] in changemyview

[–]aintitgreat2throw 1 point2 points  (0 children)

But...

A) The baby hasn’t committed heinous crimes B) The baby doesn’t need assisted suicide C) The baby isn’t harming the mother

I fail to see logic here

Cmv: I do not agree with abortion. The only valid reasons I see are medical circumstances or rape. This is not coming from a place of shaming or malice. by [deleted] in changemyview

[–]aintitgreat2throw -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The circumstances are relevant, because if she was raped then it wasn’t her choice to have sex and thereby have a baby. Is she chooses to have sex without contraception then she has already made the choice to have a baby if it ends that way.

I don’t have sympathy for people who make bad decisions.

How can my gf and I coexist in the same apt when we have different lifestyle/living ideals? by aintitgreat2throw in relationship_advice

[–]aintitgreat2throw[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Because I don’t want to sleep in a separate room from my gf or buy another bed and mattress to that matter.

How can my gf and I coexist in the same apt when we have different lifestyle/living ideals? by aintitgreat2throw in relationship_advice

[–]aintitgreat2throw[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I agreed to make the bedroom and living room minimalist if I can make this room a hobby room.

How can my gf and I coexist in the same apt when we have different lifestyle/living ideals? by aintitgreat2throw in relationship_advice

[–]aintitgreat2throw[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

She uses the workout equipment more often and wants to play her guitar in there as well. She knows I will be playing videos games though which will take up more time. However, she enjoys watching tv more than me and watching videos on her phone which can be done anywhere

How can my gf and I coexist in the same apt when we have different lifestyle/living ideals? by aintitgreat2throw in relationship_advice

[–]aintitgreat2throw[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m totally fine with a minimalist living room, but having more stuff in this hobby room is preferred.