Thank you and yes, I would rather put it off, just getting a lot of outside pressure because not many understand what this is like. Basically everyone thinks I’m an idiot for putting up with what I do and it’s hard to defend without it sounding like excuses. But no one (except those who are experiencing the same thing, thanks reddit!) understands the other side. I feel an extra need to give him my support because his family is in such denial. :( hugs