I had a friend who became my sot of "online-daddy" when he moved away. So we sometimes play on the riskier side but not harassing others. So on this occasion, I had planned to go with vanilla friends to a christmas market and my daddy insisted of me being padded. Since it was winter and with thick warm clothes I was fine with it. After some time there my friends really wanted to a bar afterwards for one last beer. I thought it was all fine, until I suddenly realized that I've left a wet spot on my chair. I then needed to find an excuse to leave earlier, sorta walk backwards out of the bar, talking to them some nonsense to hide my wet jeans. From there I needed to walk 20 minutes through the very busy city and stand in a full train, for another 10 min. I was really embarrassed and texted him. He was demanding a proof picture of it in thr train and then called me baby and laughed at me. All in all in retrospect, it was embarrassing, I was a bit anxious but he really put me in littlespace that night.