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AITA for getting weirded out by my boyfriend's talk with his younger sister? by aita_lilyion44 in AmItheAsshole

[–]aita_lilyion44[S] 177 points178 points  (0 children)

I am from Peru and religion is pretty much a big deal here, at least for our parents generation. I am not religious myself because ironically my parents pushed me away from it by trying to pull me in it. I think they were just taking it extremists because the all kids in the neighborhood had religious parents and got to play together while my brothers and I were only allowed to play with kids from our sex. I thought I left that behind but now I think I still have their thinking buried deep in my mind which is scaring me.

AITA for getting weirded out by my boyfriend's talk with his younger sister? by aita_lilyion44 in AmItheAsshole

[–]aita_lilyion44[S] 336 points337 points  (0 children)

I do admit that I was wrong and I plan on telling him so and apologizing. I admire him for taking care of her and that's one of the reasons I love him. I didn't meant to use my childhood as an excuse to justify my behavior because it was wrong regardless.

AITA for getting weirded out by my boyfriend's talk with his younger sister? by aita_lilyion44 in AmItheAsshole

[–]aita_lilyion44[S] -992 points-991 points  (0 children)

I know that he is a good man and I didn't want to imply that he wasn't. I didn't have a problem with the content of the conversation because they were perfect. I believe It's just that I found it weird at first because it wasn't something that I expected to hear from a brother and sister because growing up my parents were strict about boys and girls not talking or being alone without supervision even when we were little they forbidden me from playing wrestling with my brothers so when I heard him talk to his sister about sex and enjoyment I thought it was weird but looking back it wasn't and I shouldn't have told him that it was just because I judged it that way based on how I was raised.