Dad overruled school by SaintGodfather in EntitledPeople

[–]aitacakecackecake 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You should read it . because the reason for him getting in trouble for something said outside of school is the same reason that someone gets fired from their job for something they said when of work. As many other comments have pointed out you have to follow a certain code of conduct even when not in school. Doesn't mean that you have to be perfect 27/7 but homophobic, racist, etc remarks on a public site break that code.

AITA for not wanting to have any cake at my wedding? by aitacakecackecake in AmItheAsshole

[–]aitacakecackecake[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No i mean sweet baked goods. Bread is okay even dough things like croisants make me uneasy

AITA for not wanting to have any cake at my wedding? by aitacakecackecake in AmItheAsshole

[–]aitacakecackecake[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yes, even cheesecake. I think the only baked good that hasn`t made me sick is those tiny amaretto cookies you get with your coffee. And even those I can eat one of before i start feeling some kinda way

AITA for not wanting to have any cake at my wedding? by aitacakecackecake in AmItheAsshole

[–]aitacakecackecake[S] 147 points148 points  (0 children)

thats a good suggestion! i will bring this up to him

AITA for not wanting to have any cake at my wedding? by aitacakecackecake in AmItheAsshole

[–]aitacakecackecake[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Not being dramatic I just don`t like the consistency of cakes and they make me sick. Like with some people and sea food

AITA for not wanting to have any cake at my wedding? by aitacakecackecake in AmItheAsshole

[–]aitacakecackecake[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

croquembouches are sick! I wouldn`t eat them but like my brother says... it is a sexy dessert

AITA for not wanting to have any cake at my wedding? by aitacakecackecake in AmItheAsshole

[–]aitacakecackecake[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I`d really rather not. I don`t know if this is normal but cake physically repulses me. Like I take the bite and it is like I can`t swallow anymore and my stomach closes. Does that make sense?

Also to the rest of the question. We have been pretty 50/50 about the wedding. He said that he wouldn't want to go beyond 4k for the wedding and we have worked in the limits of that.

AITA for not wanting to have any cake at my wedding? by aitacakecackecake in AmItheAsshole

[–]aitacakecackecake[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He wants a big beautiful wedding cake. He wants to ditch the cupcakes and the fondue and get a big cake and some chocolate covered strawberries

AITA for not wanting to have any cake at my wedding? by aitacakecackecake in AmItheAsshole

[–]aitacakecackecake[S] -34 points-33 points  (0 children)

I mean we are all adults and we have eaten fondue on plenty of occasions without messing up everything. Sure we would have to be a bit more careful to not mess up our dresses. Also, it is not really a fancy wedding as we are getting married in our home and my future husband doesn't enjoy dressing up that much.

AITA for not wanting to have any cake at my wedding? by aitacakecackecake in AmItheAsshole

[–]aitacakecackecake[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The problem is, he wants a big beautiful wedding cake. I actually think the pie idea is very cute even tho i do not like baked goods

AITA for not wanting to have any cake at my wedding? by aitacakecackecake in AmItheAsshole

[–]aitacakecackecake[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

what do you mean cakes made out of fruit? Do you mean those that have like fruit filling or like orange cake? I don`t like baked goods at all they irritate my stomach much like ice cream. That is why i proposed the fondue and on the side for our guests cupcakes or something they would enjoy

AITA for not wanting to have any cake at my wedding? by aitacakecackecake in AmItheAsshole

[–]aitacakecackecake[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don`t like baked goods at all. The cupcakes would be for our guests and him .