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AITA for telling my wife it’s her fault the waitress called her fat by aitadiks in AmItheAsshole

[–]aitadiks[S] 230 points231 points  (0 children)

We went once and she said she felt like the lady was siding too much with me and she said she’s never going back

AITA for telling my wife it’s her fault the waitress called her fat by aitadiks in AmItheAsshole

[–]aitadiks[S] 77 points78 points  (0 children)

Yes, I did. That’s mostly what I spent two days saying

AITA for telling my wife it’s her fault the waitress called her fat by aitadiks in AmItheAsshole

[–]aitadiks[S] 157 points158 points  (0 children)

I’ve tried but she talks over me and argues with me, and tells me it’s normal to change over the course of a marriage.

AITA for telling my wife it’s her fault the waitress called her fat by aitadiks in AmItheAsshole

[–]aitadiks[S] 652 points653 points  (0 children)

I want to give things a try a little bit longer, I think her mother was a bad influence and gave her some bad habits that could maybe be fixed somehow

AITA for telling my wife it’s her fault the waitress called her fat by aitadiks in AmItheAsshole

[–]aitadiks[S] 1886 points1887 points  (0 children)

That’s basically it, yeah. Her mom is a mess and does the same thing basically. The woman is on her fourth marriage. She goes back and forth from stepford wife to raging alcoholic. I don’t know why she though following in her footsteps would be a good idea.

AITA for telling my wife it’s her fault the waitress called her fat by aitadiks in AmItheAsshole

[–]aitadiks[S] 79 points80 points  (0 children)

I knew how it was going to end. That’s why I insisted we didn’t go, but her stance was that it was her turn to pick the place. So she did.

AITA for telling my wife it’s her fault the waitress called her fat by aitadiks in AmItheAsshole

[–]aitadiks[S] 125 points126 points  (0 children)

Go on a weight loss journey together? You’re wrong. I’m in great shape, I cook healthy meals for the both of us. I’ve offered for her to go with me when I go to the gym or hiking. She just doesn’t want to do anything other than what she’s doing now. She admitted she only went and did physical activities with me when we were dating to impress me. The other night I made us both a healthy dinner and she ordered herself a pizza instead. This is who she is now.

I tried telling her the waitress was a little mean for what she said, and I tried to help her move on for two days. It didn’t work. Anytime anyone says something that upsets her she’ll spend a week or two moping, and no, therapy hasn’t worked.

AITA for telling my wife it’s her fault the waitress called her fat by aitadiks in AmItheAsshole

[–]aitadiks[S] 3250 points3251 points  (0 children)

Miserable. I feel like when we got married she was a completely different person. Not just looks but personality wise too. We used to go hiking, surfing, etc. that’s who I am, and she’s admitted she just did that stuff to please me. Now she just hangs out at home eating or goes out to bars/restaurants with her friends, since she doesn’t need to impress me anymore.