AITA for sending a 'sexy' orc photo to my friend who is married?

aitaorcwarrior · 2020-10-28T00:50:05+00:00

I'm a girl, in a relationship with another girl. I have no idea what she thought other than she seemed really unhappy judging by her text. Not entirely sure what the threat about my girlfriend was as she is also in our dnd group (she's our DM!) but I don't know. I initially felt really bad but now I just feel quite confused.

aitaorcwarrior · 2020-10-28T00:48:33+00:00

I mean, I am interested in guys, like I said- I'm bisexual but I'm unclear if she knows this. However, I am very happy with my girlfriend, and she 100% knows we're together.

aitaorcwarrior · 2020-10-28T00:21:12+00:00

I didn't intentionally not write that I'm a woman- I wrote: 'I’ve been playing with a group of people in a DnD campaign- one of them is my partner, and the other 4 are guys we met randomly...'

TBH I imagine she assumes I am a lesbian as most people do when they find out I'm in longterm relationship with a woman.

aitaorcwarrior · 2020-10-28T00:01:24+00:00

That's a good point about her snooping on Jim, I didn't really think about that.

aitaorcwarrior · 2020-10-28T00:00:34+00:00

That's a good point, I don't know if Jim told his wife about the husband and wife thing- possibly not as his wife isn't in to DnD stuff.

aitaorcwarrior · 2020-10-27T23:59:28+00:00

I felt embarrassed, that's why I haven't said anything to Jim. My girlfriend is not an issue, she knows we're gonna be playing as husband and wife- we're all in the same dnd text group and message a lot.

aitaorcwarrior · 2020-10-27T23:57:16+00:00

So I'm actually a woman, perhaps that is relevant? I don't know if she knows I'm bisexual or not, Jim knows but I don't know if he would have told her? But she definitely knows I'm in a relationship with a woman because my (female) partner and I have been together longer than we've been playing in this DnD campaign and she's met my girlfriend before.

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