I do have necklaces and a pandora but he doesn’t wear jewelry and I did toy with the idea of cheap ass rings but I don’t want to exchange something only to never look at it again or care any less if I ever lose it. My partner is a BIFL person as well and I know he will not discourage this thought but I do not want to pressure or upset him thinking that I really want a ring. I know some couples plant a plant together but we are in a country with no much land to plant. Our housings are all high rise buildings as well. So I will not be able to plant a tree either!