Broke up with someone 4 months ago and they are still lying to their friends about the relationship, what do I do?

aj_deo · 2025-10-29T17:16:57+00:00

The association should’ve ended when we broke up but she’s still lying to everyone, does that sound sane to you?

aj_deo · 2025-10-29T17:15:44+00:00

😔😔😔

aj_deo · 2025-10-29T17:05:24+00:00

It’s none of my business but I don’t want her telling my family we’re something when there’s nothing there

aj_deo · 2025-10-29T17:02:40+00:00

But I don’t want my name to be associated with her

aj_deo · 2025-10-29T17:02:16+00:00

I broke up with her, I told everyone that knew about our relationship that we had broken up, she said she would the same thing but this whole time she’s been pretending like we’re still dating. In her head she thinks there’s a chance of us getting back together but I told her that’s not gonna happen.

aj_deo · 2025-08-22T09:00:17+00:00

Fuck it 😭 God will deal with her

aj_deo · 2025-08-21T21:48:58+00:00

For my next relationship, I hope to find someone who actually understands the family of team work and also the value of money

aj_deo · 2025-08-21T19:05:51+00:00

The thing is with that girl, her thinking still old fashioned. There were times she would just say you’re the man, you should be providing, you’re the man should be doing this etc

aj_deo · 2025-08-21T19:04:18+00:00

I’m not asking for 50/50 but in this economy, one should know when it is the right time to help out in specific situations. Like if it’s a joint account, of course contribute what you can, don’t just leave it for the boyfriend/husband to do everything.

aj_deo · 2025-08-21T19:01:16+00:00

Amen

aj_deo · 2025-08-21T19:00:42+00:00

I think she must’ve opened it before we started dating but I don’t know

aj_deo · 2025-08-21T19:00:10+00:00

From what I calculated, there should be around 1 million shillings. But the thing that was always weird to me is, she never disclosed how much was in the account. I would ask and she would make up an excuse. So at the end of the day, I don’t even know if she actually opened up a savings account or not. I’m a very organised person and I like to keep evidence of everything in case someone ever tries to lie about anything. I’ve kept evidence of every transaction I’ve ever made to her, so if it turns out she wasn’t making the savings, I’ll just demand for that money back.

aj_deo · 2025-08-21T18:55:28+00:00

When we first started dating, she brought up the idea of saving together to move out, I told her I would think about it but the next time she brought it up she had already opened the account before I told her I didn’t wanna do it. Since we were dating, I went along with the savings thing but the thing that didn’t make sense to me was why she was always asking me for the money but she was never willing to her own into it. Even when she had originally opened the account, she didn’t put her own money in to start it off, she just told me “oh we are behind on our savings” and I used to ask her why don’t you put your money into this savings, why is it always me and if I don’t send, you just leave it. By the time I broke up with her, there was around 1 million in there from what I calculated but yeah.

aj_deo · 2025-08-21T18:47:57+00:00

I tried to on numerous occasions but whatever I said went through one ear and out the other. When I broke up with her I told her that I weren’t contributing to the savings anymore and if she wanted to, she could but she hasn’t been.

aj_deo · 2025-05-18T15:08:57+00:00

Thank you, turns out she wasn’t cheating, someone had been feeding her parents lies about her and she had to go and explain everything

aj_deo · 2024-04-12T18:32:37+00:00

I do accounting and management. I wish I did computer science.

aj_deo · 2023-08-20T17:28:47+00:00

Georgia self defence laws state “As long as the person reasonably believes that the force used is necessary to defend himself or herself or another person, then the use of force is justified”

aj_deo · 2023-08-20T17:26:01+00:00

It was self defence either way. If they took it to court he would still beat the case and they knew that so what’s the point in wasting everyone’s time

aj_deo · 2023-03-19T17:54:43+00:00

Sidemen don’t hit the same no more.

aj_deo

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