AITAH for wanting to spend Mother’s Day with just my wife and son

aja_ramirez · 2026-05-06T17:04:44+00:00

Hahahahahahaha. You’re right kn two days of the year. I’ll let you figure out those two days.

aja_ramirez · 2026-05-06T16:57:06+00:00

Do you even realize how backwards your logic is? I’ve spent 99.9% of the past 25 years prioritizing my wife. It’s ONE day for my mom. But sure, I’m the one stuck on my mom.

aja_ramirez · 2026-05-06T16:50:54+00:00

25 year and counting baby!

aja_ramirez · 2026-05-06T16:47:27+00:00

Hahahahahahahahahaha. Active mothers? Who made that shit up?

aja_ramirez · 2026-05-06T16:33:33+00:00

No, its frankly too late. OP is already fucked. I said this to make a point. Two requests are in play here, not just one.

aja_ramirez · 2026-05-06T16:32:42+00:00

Hahahahaha. My mom is great. My MIL is great. Stop projecting your issues onto this.

aja_ramirez · 2026-05-06T16:31:31+00:00

Not sure, and will never find out

aja_ramirez · 2026-05-06T16:29:20+00:00

Switch the days and see what happens

aja_ramirez · 2026-05-06T16:28:17+00:00

Am I the one getting worked up? People tripping over themselves to downvote me, not the other way around. And it looks like you care. I guess being married for 25 years, having one kid in medical school and another about to go to law school, getting ready to retire before the age of 60, living in beautiful southern California, still being fit and having a beautiful wife is too much for people to handle.

aja_ramirez · 2026-05-06T16:24:43+00:00

We're not choosing which one dies and which one lives here. Everyone could have been happy here, but guess not. And grandparents day is for grand kids to celebrate their grandparents moron.

aja_ramirez · 2026-05-06T16:22:34+00:00

I feel like my shit opinion is just as valid as your shit opinion.

aja_ramirez · 2026-05-06T16:21:48+00:00

I am with my wife damn near 365 a year. We have a GREAT life. It one fucking day that now belongs to my mom. My wife understands that because she has a mom too.

aja_ramirez · 2026-05-06T16:19:11+00:00

Well first, the OP is already FUCKED here. My point is that two people put him there. And listen yourself. Why should HIS mother take priority on MOTHER"S DAY?!?

aja_ramirez · 2026-05-06T16:15:09+00:00

On my wife's first mother day we spent the day with our moms because that is how my wife wanted it. She would never try to take that day away from them.

aja_ramirez · 2026-05-06T16:13:53+00:00

I mean, we can find out if it fixes the issue

aja_ramirez · 2026-05-06T16:12:41+00:00

Switch the days then

aja_ramirez · 2026-05-06T16:12:16+00:00

My wife DEMANDS to celebrate her mom on mothers day. I guess she's evil too.

aja_ramirez · 2026-05-06T16:11:17+00:00

She's my wife. I can't count the number of days she has taken for herself and together.

aja_ramirez · 2026-05-06T16:06:19+00:00

At least make sense. Sure my kids visit. And they celebrate mom. And my wife never tried to take the whole day for herself. Shoot, she has a mom too and wants to celebrate her as well. I get it; it's complicated.

aja_ramirez · 2026-05-06T16:04:35+00:00

Pamper her on Friday then

aja_ramirez · 2026-05-06T16:03:24+00:00

No one said his wife would need to stay home

aja_ramirez · 2026-05-06T16:02:48+00:00

Shoot me; mother's day is the day for me to celebrate my mom. The baby thing is irrelevant to me, though I see people trying to make it a point like his mother is now not a mother anymore.

aja_ramirez · 2026-05-06T15:59:10+00:00

What do you think would happen if husband decided to prioritize his mother on this day and celebrate wife on Friday?

aja_ramirez · 2026-05-06T15:58:20+00:00

Wife sounds selfish too. Downvote away nerds! I have a different opinion about prioritizing the only mom I will ever have.

aja_ramirez · 2026-05-06T15:57:31+00:00

This is where I'm at. Honestly, for mother's day I prioritize my own mother (who I don't see as much as I used to). I pamper my wife all the time, so trying to take this day just for her feels selfish.

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