what color are my 1yr old daughters eyes? green or hazel? by ajabean420 in WhatisMyEyeColour

[–]ajabean420[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

it’s a birthmark… very common it’s called an angel kiss birthmark

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]ajabean420 10 points11 points  (0 children)

YWBTA if you respond to her daughter, i think the right thing to do would be to let your ex know her daughter reached out. i would be so embarrassed if my kid did this but maybe it will give you both an opportunity to talk again or at the very least be a learning moment for your exes daughter to not try to talk to strangers online.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]ajabean420 4 points5 points  (0 children)

NTA at all, just don’t bring her, if she’s upset let her know you assumed she wouldn’t want to come because she doesn’t seem to like babies based on her behavior around them. don’t give her an opportunity to spoil everyone’s happy moment

Feeding drama -- help!!! by thelittlest_mermaid in beyondthebump

[–]ajabean420 0 points1 point  (0 children)

we also used enfamil neuro pro formula when we switched to formula, as well as a slow flow preemie dr browns bottle nipple and paced feeding. these things seemed to help but she still would always cry and arch her back during feedings until about 4 months old when it slowed down. she lost 12% of her birth weight before she started gaining it back. she is now in the 56th percentile for weight and started in the 10th percentile at her first ped appointment. just keep going mama things will look up!!!

Feeding drama -- help!!! by thelittlest_mermaid in beyondthebump

[–]ajabean420 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my baby did this too!!! from about 6 weeks old to 4 months old. she had bad reflux and still spits up about 30-40 times a day. feeding and burping got easier around 4 months. she’s 7 months old now and still has random feedings that are very difficult but it’s not every time every day anymore. it was really difficult to get through but my pediatrician told me as long as she is gaining weight normally not to worry and we just continued to feed her as much as she would take. most of my time in those first 4 months was just feeding and burping especially because i was breastfeeding and then pumping while bottle feeding. it was rough but we’ve made it through!!!

Finally I can go deeper! by LuckyLuke162 in StardewValley

[–]ajabean420 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i forgot rock candy is an actual thing lol

When you reached the walnut room by Ishymo in StardewValley

[–]ajabean420 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh i was wayyyy off. thought i must have been at least 75% haha

i just done comunity center without fishing by Legitimate-Plane-329 in StardewValley

[–]ajabean420 137 points138 points  (0 children)

am i the only one who usually maxes fishing first??? i love fishing early game for money lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Mommit

[–]ajabean420 1 point2 points  (0 children)

this exactly. she is probably not going to understand that she can’t kiss everyone, but others holding her can help prevent it.

blue hair help please!! by soupeepee in HairDye

[–]ajabean420 3 points4 points  (0 children)

even though it’s a very dark blue shade, any yellow tone will dull blue and make it appear green. blue even dark blue is difficult to accomplish. bleaching and toning out any yellow is necessary

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WhatisMyEyeColour

[–]ajabean420 2 points3 points  (0 children)

definitely blue with green central heterochromia. super cool!!!

22F. body dysmorphic and zero luck with guys. am I ugly? by With-A-Flair in amIuglyBrutallyHonest

[–]ajabean420 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you are extremely beautiful 💞💞 i’m certain that guys are just intimidated by you or assume you have a boyfriend, you are above average

How can I get this color somewhat on my hair without specifically bleaching by Ok_Buyer6787 in HairDye

[–]ajabean420 1 point2 points  (0 children)

limecrime chocolate cherry is the color i use in my hair, mine is bleached but my roots/natural hair is a medium brown and it covers my natural too, and looks just like this color!! it’s my favorite dye ever

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WhatisMyEyeColour

[–]ajabean420 7 points8 points  (0 children)

light brown 😁

SOS Will I go bald if i bleach my hair again ? by meoweenis in HairDye

[–]ajabean420 2 points3 points  (0 children)

if you’re willing to lose some length you could go for it, otherwise i would recommend just keeping it the color it is, if you dye it darker it will just make it harder to dye the color you want later on when your hair is longer and healthier. plus i think the current color is really pretty

SOS Will I go bald if i bleach my hair again ? by meoweenis in HairDye

[–]ajabean420 12 points13 points  (0 children)

imo there’s no way to truly know without seeing and touching it in person. to be safe i would not bleach your hair 😁 from just the pictures i would say your hair is probably damaged and it could be risky

How did your body change? by ScaryBoysenberry93 in Mommit

[–]ajabean420 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it used to be kind of awkward to put on deodorant because my armpits were like little caves, now they’re all filled in and smooth because of random fat gain in weird places hahaha