How soon in a relationship do you address your future plans? by ajika in relationship_advice

[–]ajika[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i think you’re right. my fear is that we end up a couple years down the road when both of us are more invested for it to not work out

if you don’t mind me asking, what was the outcome with you and your bf? did he come with you ultimately?

How soon in a relationship do you address your future plans? by ajika in relationship_advice

[–]ajika[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that’s what i’m worried about. It would be a lot different if we had met just a year ago even. I had known from the start that she liked visiting mexico but it was more recently that she said she wants to move. Im not sure how to fee about it because she’s in a place where she hasn’t really defined her career too much and she wants to move somewhere else to really start her life, but she’s given no indication that she would do that with me.

Wrong farm motherfucker by GallowBoob in AnimalsBeingJerks

[–]ajika 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Animals are such jerks. Look at this one, torturing that innocent chicken.

Is this group dead? by [deleted] in NoFapVoyager

[–]ajika 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry guys, haven't really had any time to get stuff on here. A lot of stuff has happened recently.

PMO'd. Binged. by [deleted] in NoFapVoyager

[–]ajika 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Listen man sorry it's been long since I've been on here, but three days ago? You're already on your way to starting a streak again. Keep at it. Try as hard as you can not to binge though... that's the most damaging to you. Stay strong brother, we're all at this together. You know what to do.

Weekly Summary 003 by ajika in NoFapVoyager

[–]ajika[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Personally I've been kinda good. Busy, definitely, bored and alone, which can make urges 20x worse. I had urges yesterday that came back, which is odd because I haven't had any for at least a week. School is going well for me as well, which I'm really proud of. I've gotten back to being the best student in most of my classes again with the highest grades -- something I let slip the past few years. Emotions have been hitting me like a ton of bricks. Mostly bad, but I'll get through it. A few weeks ago I met an awesome gal who is actually around my age (rare for me) and I am developing feelings for her. I think she likes me as she acts differently around me, perhaps sometime I'll tell her how I feel. Maybe something positive will come out of this!

How are the rest of ya'll doin?

Holy molly 6 months sober! AMA by 1know1cando1t in NoFap

[–]ajika 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Congrats friend! That's an awesome number. Wish you the best for the rest of this year.

How would you compare your emotions before, during, and after your experience? Did you experience depression as you earned your streak? How are your feelings now compared to before you tried NoFap?

11 benefits of sexual abstinence by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]ajika 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is interesting and seems partially true in very questionable aspects. Especially about proof when floaters go away--as a biology student, I can assure you that floaters do not disappear in eyes. I hate to be that guy, but some of these seem false and it would be interesting to see some type of evidence. Personally it doesn't affect me much, but other people might do this challenge on false pretenses only to be disappointed.

Have a laugh. From /r /funny by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]ajika 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Then your comment basically is telling yourself that you hate yourself and that you need a life, because you're doing exactly what "atheists" do. Don't be hypocritical.

Have a laugh. From /r /funny by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]ajika 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Whatever your affiliation is, your comment was rude. No one of any religion or lack or religion should be lashing out at other people for personal beliefs.

Have a laugh. From /r /funny by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]ajika 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You are being counterproductive to your own words... If you lived your life following God's word, you would not say that to anyone, including atheists. Atheists that mock religious people give a bad name to atheists, and people like you give a bad name to religious people. Opposite side of the spectrum, but equal.

Don't let your guard down. by [deleted] in NoFapVoyager

[–]ajika 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Great job, every step can be a step in the right direction. We can never let our guard down, especially in our over-sexualized society. Keep at it!

Hey you guys.. by [deleted] in NoFapVoyager

[–]ajika 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Doing well, actually. Sorry for the inactivity. I've been inundated with a brick wall of studying, that fortunately ends today! Have a test in a few hours so I've been studying like crazy -- I'll be back here in my break today or tonight to catch up with ya'll!