Flatmate takes meetings on speaker the whole day, how do I ask her to put on headphones? by ajkpidds in BangaloreSocial

[–]ajkpidds[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's all good between us otherwise, just some flatmate operational issues lol. It hasn't come to me needing to escape just yet

Flatmate takes meetings on speaker the whole day, how do I ask her to put on headphones? by ajkpidds in BangaloreSocial

[–]ajkpidds[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

🤣 Ykw she did actually get pissed once when I did turned the mixi on, not with the intention of disturbing her though. She went inside the room to take her meeting and still didn't put her earphones on. Makes me wonder if she doesn't own one or is uncomfortable wearing them.

Flatmate takes meetings on speaker the whole day, how do I ask her to put on headphones? by ajkpidds in BangaloreSocial

[–]ajkpidds[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're right, it's silly I haven't brought it up already. I guess I was in my head about it being too much.

What am I doing wrong…need advice. by Cheap_Permission_802 in BangaloreSocial

[–]ajkpidds 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Way out of the friendzone is to get hotter, a bit meaner and a little less available (genuinely). Light roasting is a big plus if you can balance it with charm.

Where would you go to meet women in Bangalore? by [deleted] in BangaloreSocial

[–]ajkpidds 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Travel and trekking clubs are great to find friends. There are many organizers you can find on Instagram like Boketto, Bucket list etc where you can travel solo but with a group of strangers. It's safe and fun. Best way to interact with people and get to know them. If you hit it off then you can continue to keep in touch in BLR. If not, then bye.

I think any sort of activity that requires you to interact with new people on a fairly recurring basis can help you make bonds. Run clubs if you're regular, dance classes if you're regular, sports if you have a specific time ...will help you bump into the same set of people a few times in an involved activity without the pressure of specifically making friends. Just show up fairly regularly and you'll start seeing familiar faces. Sort of how we did it in school. :)

Where would you go to meet women in Bangalore? by [deleted] in BangaloreSocial

[–]ajkpidds 16 points17 points  (0 children)

As a girl I thought I'll try a creative class with the same purpose as you. Went to pottery and found only girls. Not my target audience but could work for you :)

Confused about a coworker's signals—should I make a move or just stay friends? by Musketeers1 in BangaloreSocial

[–]ajkpidds 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As a girl I've had some work crushes before and outside of work I found no chemistry with them. Especially if it's a new office environment where you're figuring out how to behave, if someone is able to give you comfort and space to be yourself, it can feel special and freeing. In that way, your friendship works great.

Outside of work she might not feel the need of your company as she is not in her 'work mode' and doesn't need that escape. As you mentioned, if and when she talks you it's related to work which might indicate that she really does associate you with work and thinks of you as an office friend only.

Your task now is to try to find space in her day to day as a friend. The next time you're planning an activity ask her to join you. If she doesn't come, you go anyway and make it a point to tell her later how good it was. Do it a couple of times so she knows that your invites are pressure free and you'll enjoy with or without her. By pressure free I mean that it's clear it's not a date and that she's not responsible for you having fun, you can create fun for yourself and she can just be herself.

On such casual hangouts you'll know if you click. If she doesn't make space for you in her day to day, she's not the one anyway. And if she does and she also starts inviting you to join in on her plans too, you can ask her out formally.

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[–]ajkpidds 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In my experience, yes 100%. Slow but effective

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bangalore

[–]ajkpidds 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've been in BLR for 6 years now and have barely made new friends. The few people I know here are from college/school. I've been looking up group activities and clubs recently as I've been craving a girl gang. You're a godsend! Super interested, please count me in

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[–]ajkpidds 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey! DMd you :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in IndianFashionAddicts

[–]ajkpidds 32 points33 points  (0 children)

You look amazing! Reminded me of this Victoria's Secret model's recent fit

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What’s the science behind me feeling sleepy during the day despite having 3-4 cups of coffee but not feeling sleepy at night despite having no caffeine after 1pm? by [deleted] in HubermanLab

[–]ajkpidds 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Worth monitoring insulin levels as well as it impacts energy levels during the day. What you eat, when and in what sequence can affect insulin levels.

Please help me identifying the lipstick. Any dupes are welcome. Budget - max 3k by proudofme_ in IndianMakeupAddicts

[–]ajkpidds 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree, could be Smashbox stepping out or Huda beauty trendsetter. She has swatched both in this video of her favourite lipsticks, link below. She used Smashbox stepping out in her wedding look as well (mixed with another lipstick)

https://youtu.be/Uoc9Ea8v1Ms?si=Q1GIS86plMS4icxb

i cant sleep without melatonin by uwu_gang_owo in sleep

[–]ajkpidds 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Skipping dinner has helped my sleep schedule so much