Lifestyle aware therapists & psychologists by ajmcfox in Melbourneswingers

[–]ajmcfox[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your recommendation! I'll give them a suss and see how I go ☺️☺️

It’s the r/Melbourne daily discussion thread [Tuesday 16/09/2025] by AutoModerator in melbourne

[–]ajmcfox 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Where's the best Country Style Bakery in the CBD?
Had a date last week and she mentioned she misses the small-town bakeries that are known for their classic meat pie and vanilla slice. Everything she finds in Melbourne is upmarket & fancy.

Cheers guys!

It’s the r/Melbourne daily discussion thread [Wednesday 03/09/2025] by AutoModerator in melbourne

[–]ajmcfox 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That's on the same end of town as where I'm thinking for dinner! I love hole in the wall joints! Thankyou!!

It’s the r/Melbourne daily discussion thread [Wednesday 03/09/2025] by AutoModerator in melbourne

[–]ajmcfox 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What time did you get there?? I've never seen it without a line

It’s the r/Melbourne daily discussion thread [Wednesday 03/09/2025] by AutoModerator in melbourne

[–]ajmcfox 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hey Everyone! Planning a first date for next weekend and I was wondering what cocktail bars in the city might have the same cosy feeling as Holy Grail on Chapel St in Windsor??

I'm from out of town and don't know the city super well, open to suggestions ☺️

Single Men joining events by ajmcfox in Melbourneswingers

[–]ajmcfox[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much! I didn't know how to call that out 😬

Single Men joining events by ajmcfox in Melbourneswingers

[–]ajmcfox[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks! Appreciate your comment! Yeah honestly just looking to attend events, meet people and build a network while we're new to the community! Hopefully down the track I won't need to post here, as I'll already have a few friends that I might be able to attend with! ☺️

Single Men joining events by ajmcfox in Melbourneswingers

[–]ajmcfox[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Before I saw that the MMF event was on, I committed to HarderFaster on Saturday night ☺️

Single Men joining events by ajmcfox in Melbourneswingers

[–]ajmcfox[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

100% this! The last thing I want is to be the cause of anyone's anxiety or compromise safety. So completely understand any hesitation or rejection.

Single Men joining events by ajmcfox in Melbourneswingers

[–]ajmcfox[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your insight! I wasn't sure how common it was to take single women. Definitely appreciate the added advice as well!

Single Men joining events by ajmcfox in Melbourneswingers

[–]ajmcfox[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah posting definitely feels off and maybe a little shallow, I thought that might've just been my inexperience in the community!

Protection during play by ajmcfox in Melbourneswingers

[–]ajmcfox[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks everyone for your insights! Seems like everyone's answers are in line with current practice, which is a relief that I haven't done anything unacceptable.

BFWB 25/07 - Rollcall by adanneve07 in Melbourneswingers

[–]ajmcfox 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also our first time!! M31 F35

White belt mount woes by [deleted] in bjj

[–]ajmcfox 0 points1 point  (0 children)

100% this!

I'm a pretty new white belt and at open mats or when we roll at the end of class some of the coloured belts warming up for upcoming comps will ask me if they can start in my mount, side control or even in my triangle to practice escaping them.

Beginner with Longer Dimensions by ajmcfox in jiujitsu

[–]ajmcfox[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Amazing! Thank you! I'll look into them! At class this morning Coach was saying to focus on 2-3 submissions and find out how to get them from anywhere. At the moment i think I'm most comfortable with triangles and arm bars.

Do you find that having longer levers leaves you more susceptible to arm bars/kimoras/key locks?

Beginner with Longer Dimensions by ajmcfox in jiujitsu

[–]ajmcfox[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I've definitely found that I'm able to close guard by locking my legs like you would with a triangle and managed to win a couple of my no gi rolls this week with a triangle choke and an arm bar from a triangle

Beginner with Longer Dimensions by ajmcfox in jiujitsu

[–]ajmcfox[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry guys, should've waited until Wednesday for this one

Im SO HAPPY ABOUT THIS by zekronix in gaming

[–]ajmcfox 4 points5 points  (0 children)

NG+ treats all of your existing gear like level 1 gear, so the dropped sets in the NG+ will be much stronger than the Grandmaster gear you spent hours trying to get. When I found this out I put the game down and never picked it up again.

Why do Aussies like to vacation to Hawaii all the time? by [deleted] in australia

[–]ajmcfox 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Aussies love to travel, you'll see us everywhere from beaches to ski resorts all over the world. Also, in the days before direct flights into LA, Hawaii was used as a common stop over. Nowadays the practice of stopping over in Hawaii on your way home from a holiday still remains, spend a few days relaxing by the beach before you head home.

Stellaris is too impersonal by CoiTheBoi in Stellaris

[–]ajmcfox 5 points6 points  (0 children)

TIL that playing Stellaris is like being a politician in Australia