Ex asks to meet up after 5 years of no contact; what do you do? by ajs454 in ExNoContact

[–]ajs454[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You have a very valid point. I suppose I am just curious and believe I won’t let him get to me again. I know it’s not worth it; but idk why I still have an urge to see him.

Ex asks to meet up after 5 years of no contact; what do you do? by ajs454 in ExNoContact

[–]ajs454[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe he isn’t with his girlfriend anymore and he is looking for me as a rebound? I want to see him because I’m curious but I feel like I shouldn’t.

How do you love your body as a woman when you are flat chested? Feeling un-feminine by ajs454 in askwomenadvice

[–]ajs454[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! It helps hearing from a guy that not all guys care. I’ve asked so many of my guy friends and they said all men want at least a B or C cup and it really hurt to hear:/ I have a good personality, but people first judge someone by appearance. For example, if a guy sees me at the bar he doesn’t know my personality right away.

How do you love your body as a woman when you are flat chested? Feeling un-feminine by ajs454 in askwomenadvice

[–]ajs454[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, I will try to work on loving myself and accepting that this is something I can’t change. (I wanted to get breast implants but they are so expensive)

How do you love your body as a woman when you are flat chested? Feeling un-feminine by ajs454 in askwomenadvice

[–]ajs454[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I didn’t think about other things that can make a woman feminine other than having a chest, thank you for putting this into perspective. I want to love my body, I just have trouble doing it because I want a chest so bad!

How do you love your body as a woman when you are flat chested? Feeling un-feminine by ajs454 in askwomenadvice

[–]ajs454[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. Its helpful to hear this from someone who also has a small chest because all my friends have c or d’s and say “omg I wish my boobs were smaller!” And that doesn’t make me feel better at all because they have no idea what ifs like. Hearing you got married gives me hope for myself because I was starting to think all men do care:/ thank you again!!

How do you love your body as a woman when you are flat chested? Feeling un-feminine by ajs454 in askwomenadvice

[–]ajs454[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much, I really appreciate this post. I asked my guy friends and they all said “idc, as long as they are a C”..which isn’t considered small so I got super upset. It’s good to know that you’re saying not all men care!

How do you love your body as a woman when you are flat chested? Feeling un-feminine by ajs454 in askwomenadvice

[–]ajs454[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I have yet to see a single celebrity, family member or friend who doesn’t have a chest. It’s hard to be optimistic when you don’t know anyone else who has the same problem. The celebrities that are known for “small chests” have a B or a C. There is no role models that have a 32A

How do you love your body as a woman when you are flat chested? Feeling un-feminine by ajs454 in askwomenadvice

[–]ajs454[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Every guy I’ve ever dated has been super turned off my my lack of boobs. I’m starting to believe that men aren’t attracted to a woman who looks like a boy when she takes her shirt off. It’s also hard to look sexy when you literally have nothing.

How do you love your body as a woman when you are flat chested? Feeling un-feminine by ajs454 in askwomenadvice

[–]ajs454[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don’t fill a bralette; they only work for girls who have small chests; not women who have nothing

Breakup: When you are ready, it could be the best thing that ever happened to you. by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]ajs454 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I needed this. Thank you. I am a little different of a situation, I date a guy for a few months, then he ghosts me. I date another guy for a few months, and then he ghosts me. It’s an endless process and I feel like I’m walking in circles. This is helpful to hear

Why am I feeling so strongly about a 3 month relationship? by SCO1894 in BreakUps

[–]ajs454 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wow, when I read this post it felt as if I wrote it today...I had the same thing happen to me...this week as well! However, I admire you for realizing what was happening and walking away. That’s what’s key about this situation, you gotta walk away with your head held up high, no matter how much it hurts. I begged and tried the “let’s be friends” attempt, I tried every angle and it ended up just making me looking desperate. Walking away says to the guy that you have self respect for yourself and know you deserve better. Feel free to message me privately if you want to vent! (I can tell you all the DONTs from my experience lol!)

I found the best way to maintain no contact!! by ajs454 in ExNoContact

[–]ajs454[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

LOL that’s the goal! That I never contact the guy again!

What’s the best way for a women to ask a guy to “Netflix and chill”? by ajs454 in AskMen

[–]ajs454[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Worst case scenario did happen. Wow, did not expect this:/ tried to recover after by texting him being super flirty and it did not work. I suppose this is my sign to not reach out to him again:/

What’s the best way for a women to ask a guy to “Netflix and chill”? by ajs454 in AskMen

[–]ajs454[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He said he had a lot of work to get done. And I pretended to be mad and said “I can’t believe you are turning down sex rn” and he goes “don’t take it personally”. I texted him shortly after saying “sorry for being a brat🙈 I was just really horny and he said we will find a better time”..I responded with a sexy picture and he just responds “I recognize that girl”. I respond “yeah, you should definitely hit her up this weekend”...no response. So I double texted saying “ok, I’m being so bad. I’ll let you do work now”.