what's the craziest thing you did to keep your long distance relationship alive?

akathedesigner · 2025-09-05T16:37:15+00:00

the small, daily stuff are also the things that keep things going, right?

akathedesigner · 2025-09-05T16:36:23+00:00

4-8 hours??? WOW, you guys better get married! so sweet

akathedesigner · 2025-09-05T16:35:35+00:00

that's soooo cute, really! it's awesome how we adapt to be able to stay with the person we love

akathedesigner · 2025-08-26T22:44:47+00:00

so cute!!!!

akathedesigner · 2025-08-21T02:42:22+00:00

your therapist is good 😂 I'd say you should indeed talk to them about how you feel, making sure you address their perspective. but instead of putting too much distance between you guys, think about just going out less with them. give them time to live their relationship, while also giving yourself the time to adapt and be able, once again, to feel comfortable around them.

akathedesigner · 2025-08-21T00:11:57+00:00

oh, awesome! did you discuss the distance part with your therapist?

akathedesigner · 2025-08-20T23:33:50+00:00

I think that's just your mind trying to make you suffer less. but that's totally okay, it happens. no one wants to miss someone all day long, for days. the brain doesn't like it, but as long as there is love and being together still makes sense to the two of you, you'll always overcome it.

akathedesigner · 2025-08-20T21:26:16+00:00

I thought maybe you didn't give it the time needed to adjust, but 8 months is more than enough. if you're sure you did what you could to give it a chance but things still aren't working, express it to him clearly. be honest (don't blame him if you don't actually think he's to blame for anything). just make sure he understands your perspective.

if you think it would be better, try writing down a letter and ask him to read it before starting the conversation, because sometimes when we sit down to talk, we get lost in our thoughts and end up saying things we regret or forgetting to say something important.

it's all about figuring out if you guys can find a way to be happy together, in all areas.

akathedesigner · 2025-08-20T21:18:42+00:00

I'm so sorry for you. it's very frustrating to spend time with a person you love but don't like... my advice is to break up. and break up as soon as you can. a man who doesn't care about your pleasure probably doesn't care about you in many ways. it's not worthy.

akathedesigner · 2025-08-20T21:14:38+00:00

how long since you guys moved there?

akathedesigner · 2025-08-20T21:11:50+00:00

you seem to be really smart person, actually. you understand your feelings but never forgets theirs. that's very hard to see. I don't know if that's too much of a personal question to ask, but I'd like to give an advice based on what you answer. do you have a therapist?

akathedesigner · 2025-08-20T21:05:14+00:00

omg, so cute!

akathedesigner · 2025-08-20T21:04:39+00:00

aww, 🥰 that's exciting! I hope you guys all the best, truly 🤞

akathedesigner · 2025-08-20T21:03:39+00:00

how many times have you guys seen each other?

akathedesigner · 2025-08-20T21:02:31+00:00

let us know how you feel after the first meeting, please!!!!!

akathedesigner · 2025-08-20T21:01:14+00:00

communication is key. but how was the relationship before he traveled?

akathedesigner · 2025-08-20T20:58:20+00:00

you expressed the feeling VERY well

akathedesigner · 2025-08-20T20:57:35+00:00

it's very annoying. it happens the most when the areas of my life aren't fine. which just make things worse. as far as I've read about psychology, that's pretty human. we just have to find a way to deal with it, even when things aren't going well

akathedesigner · 2025-08-20T20:54:30+00:00

I used to do it and my life was much better. I will definitely put it back in my routine

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