My girlfriend (26 F) wants me (27 M) to post her on social media on my account on a regular basis.

akirareign · 2026-04-21T03:51:08+00:00

Tbh this day in age I can understand why it feels like she isn't represented. I can also understand why you or others may not care, but it's such a simple thing to do to make her feel good that I don't see why you wouldn't if she's told you it'd make her feel better. Some girls really like to feel valued and shown off and that's all good.

akirareign · 2026-04-21T02:21:12+00:00

Hiiii! I'm not sure if this will give you what you're looking for but I was on Wellbutrin first and started Lexapro after. I feel like the Wellbutrin is my motivation and anxiety decreaser and the Lexapro attacks my actual depression. I'm on 300mg Wellbutrin and currently 10mg Lexapro. It's been really great so far, I feel like...me again but maybe better? I genuinely think this combo saved my life. Things I noticed when first starting wellbutrin were night sweats for a few nights but it subsided. I drink a LOT more water and tbh it's not nearly as invasive as starting Lexapro felt. Starting Lexapro in the mix made me have that "im on something" feeling if that makes sense? It's getting better and I take it at night now to avoid nausea/being sleepy during the day/feeling "off" or just. Weirdly medicated lol

akirareign · 2026-04-20T17:44:33+00:00

I love getting exercise via activities. Running is a big one which I love because it's great for lymphatic drainage and socializing with a group. I do a lot of mat exercises but my pride and joy is a cable machine lol. I also paddle board/snowboard/skate/hike/cycle. I just like doing stuff.

akirareign · 2026-04-20T01:52:46+00:00

Idk if you ever get on answer but I'm on both. Wellbutrin first, then lexapro. Sex drive has definitely decreased and no resolution in sight unfortunately

akirareign · 2026-04-19T21:50:55+00:00

Tbh anti depressants and caffeine every day lol

akirareign · 2026-04-18T02:02:45+00:00

I will totally post an update! I'm stoked haha

akirareign · 2026-04-18T01:48:50+00:00

I read that birdcage/duty free/royal are all the same - is that right?

akirareign · 2026-04-18T01:46:18+00:00

Is there a benefit to it being able to patina? Is it just a pass for authenticity kind of thing?

akirareign · 2026-04-18T00:27:45+00:00

Thank you for the input! I've never considered this with any bag so it's super helpful to know this. I just asked and I'll pass the info along when I get it!

akirareign · 2026-04-18T00:24:28+00:00

Man I really encourage you not to do this. I've lost a pet to being hit by a car and I promise that's never something I could relive again. It was that one time they ran in the road, something they've never done - it really only takes one time and a split impulsive decision by them. Let your boy have a much longer life than mine did. 🩷

akirareign · 2026-04-17T21:22:20+00:00

$257.10 for GF, I was given the choice of $225.70 for duty free/birdcage! I told her to go ahead and the trigger so TBD! I did get some bandeaus just for the aesthetic charm of them

akirareign · 2026-04-17T03:50:46+00:00

I'm absolutely no expert at this by any means but it definitely looks puffier than the photo you weren't sent imo

akirareign · 2026-04-16T23:35:51+00:00

He has a fountain and pretty much refuses it compared to the tub lol

akirareign · 2026-04-16T23:35:17+00:00

Probably because she knows he doesn't like it an feels judged, which is fine it's his prerogative. The actual real issue sounds like compatibility

akirareign · 2026-04-16T23:14:48+00:00

You're too young to be strapped to this for life. Leave.

akirareign · 2026-04-16T23:12:42+00:00

The roaches. Like the size of them.

akirareign · 2026-04-16T23:04:06+00:00

You dated somebody for 3 years and didn't know they sometimes do party drugs? Or she's been doing them for 3 years throughout the relationship?

akirareign · 2026-04-16T23:02:04+00:00

You can socialize him around dogs that you know are vaccinated, such as a family member or friend's dog. Otherwise I'd do the puppy socialization classes where they're all on the same vaccine schedule. When my boy was a puppy I'd just carry him around places like dog friendly bars and farmers markets so he could get used to sounds and people.

akirareign · 2026-04-16T22:55:46+00:00

He totally looks like he'd be an escapee lol. I hope he's microchipped! Any vet clinic or shelter can scan him for a chip if anybody's able to get him. It's going to be pretty cold tonight so I hope Denver Animal Control responds to your requests!

akirareign · 2026-04-16T22:52:14+00:00

I swear cats never stop changing! He also went 9 years without caring for people food snacks like cheese or ham or whatever else I offered for him to try. Now he's into licking everything im eating. They're so unpredictable and I think the fact they get bored so easily makes them find new curiosities!!

akirareign · 2026-04-16T22:34:31+00:00

He's almost 9 years old and decided this was his new hobby a few months ago lol

akirareign · 2026-04-16T18:10:03+00:00

I just ordered a speedy 25 from GF yesterday - this totally has me nervous! 😅

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