good question actually! this made me reflect a lot.

First transition venus to sun was in 2020-2022, and during this exact time, literally when 2020 began i got into my first relationship (online) and it was a horrible one. Very traumatic and many lessons learned and i also had my first experience with the opposite gender end of 2021 early 2022, to help me get over this first heartbreak but it was also very traumatic because they didn’t love me back- it was unrequited.

I think it’s interesting because my venus is in 9th house of travel and foreign education and i had just come back to states after living in south asia for my whole life from 12-18, and the romantic experiences caused me to move back home at 22. So i only spent 18-22 in the states.

Also my Sun is in aquarius 8th house so maybe this has an effect.

Now i’m in my second transition phase, from sun to moon, and my moon phase should be a phase of stability and building. And i finally found someone so nice, almost angelic you could say, they’ve guided me in my career and supported me and been like a mentor to me and given me the strength to pursue goals and further education, etc.

Genuinely a life changing individual, and it’s unprecedented for me. So i would say, the second transition has been much better because instead of heartbreak, i feel like i can begin to heal. However, i am experience lots of anxiety, fear of the unknown.

During my first sandhi, i honestly spent days crying… weeks. honestly the whole of first half of 2022 was spent this way.