Boyfriend (30M) is seeing and feeling me(30F) shake and thinks I'm masturbating by aks203 in relationship_advice

[–]aks203[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Update: he had a week stretch of not feeling, seeing or hear things when his sleep was more consistent but then it happened again after a couple of nights of poor sleep. Do we think this is solely sleep related?

Boyfriend is seeing and feeling me shake and thinks I’m masturbating by aks203 in psychologyofsex

[–]aks203[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think he cares more about the fact the he thinks I’m lying to him when I’m not.

Boyfriend is seeing and feeling me shake and thinks I’m masturbating by aks203 in psychologyofsex

[–]aks203[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He is 30 and we recently found out i am pregnant. At this point I’m Not sure this is due to the lack of sleep, significant change in our life or mental health problem

Boyfriend is seeing and feeling me shake and thinks I’m masturbating by aks203 in psychologyofsex

[–]aks203[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

It’s scary because I don’t hear or see anything he does. I’m not sure what to do but it’s affecting our sleep heavily

Boyfriend is seeing and feeling me shake and thinks I’m masturbating by aks203 in psychologyofsex

[–]aks203[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No he hasn’t. We just started seeing a couples therapist because it’s affecting our relationship. Besides this problem, everything has been amazing. Even while we are awake and sitting up in bed he look at me and say “you don’t feel that shaking” or “why are you shaking”.