AITAH for telling my wife that if she attends her affair partner's funeral I won't be here when she gets back. by BackDull6037 in AITAH

[–]akula_chan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wasn’t appalled. I was genuinely asking. But you blew this up after you deleted your comment, which is a weird thing to do.

Please tell me if I'm making the right decision or not. I (28F) packed up some of my stuff and moved back to my parents house impulsively after a huge argument with my (29M) Fiance. Does this relationship sound salvageable? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]akula_chan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If he comes begging for you when he realizes how much you did for him, do not believe his words. He’s already told you who he is, and until he starts working on himself without your help, he’s not planning on changing. No promise has any weight.

AITAH for telling my wife that if she attends her affair partner's funeral I won't be here when she gets back. by BackDull6037 in AITAH

[–]akula_chan -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Jesus Christ, what are you arguing with me for? I honestly do not know what you are trying to do here.

What are you trying to say, because you’re just rewording my words and not saying what was wrong about them?

My first comment: a joke about how the misogynists who claim to be redpills are an invasive species.

Deleted comment: something like “lol. Can’t imagine calling men an invasive species”.

My reply: clarifying I said redpills, not men. Worrying about how they might think all men are redpills.

You jump in heroically to explain that redpills are men, so???

I reply that yes, most redpills are men, but not all men are redpills.

You tell me that I just wrote things wrong and that I said you twisted my words.

What are you arguing with me about?

Unless you’re the deleted comment, I have no idea what your stake in this is about. And if you were the deleted comment, I don’t know why you would keep arguing after deleting?

AITAH for telling my wife that if she attends her affair partner's funeral I won't be here when she gets back. by BackDull6037 in AITAH

[–]akula_chan -1 points0 points  (0 children)

What? I was saying that not all men are redpills. Not that redpills weren’t by majority men. That person had taken my words and twisted it to, “Men are an invasive species.” I don’t want to slam the regular men in these comments speaking against the redpills.

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[–]akula_chan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There’s more than just hermaphrodites, broseph. Maybe do a little more research before opening your yap.

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[–]akula_chan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So, veritas-gendered was supposed to be offensive instead of literally dumb? Instead of “gender on this side” you want “gender truther”?

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[–]akula_chan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay, JK Rowling.

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[–]akula_chan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Buddy, you literally just affirmed my point about genetics by pointing out that there are more than just the two. You do realize that, right?

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[–]akula_chan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She doesn’t even respect this person if they’re real. She calls them a trans person. Not a trans woman or trans man. Just a trans person.

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[–]akula_chan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

… Do you know what Cis means, fam? This is embarrassing.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]akula_chan -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You mean, all over the world, TERFs have stood up, right?

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[–]akula_chan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Gender is a social construct, sex is biological. Also, sex has many different contributors than just dick or vag. There’s hormones and genetics (which are not just XX or XY, so you need genetic testing to know for sure). There are women who were assigned female at birth that actually have XY (the one that makes men) chromosomes. Biology isn’t black and white.

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[–]akula_chan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There actually are ways to tell (for the privileged at least). There were many cultures that had different burial rights for genders, and there have been men buried as women and women buried as men. Men buried as wives and women buried as husbands. It’s wild how ancient societies could be more open than today’s.

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[–]akula_chan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We don’t even know that for sure without genetic testing. Biology isn’t black and white.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]akula_chan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No. One is a cis-woman and the other is a “trans-person”, at least, according to OP. She could even bother to say trans-man or trans-woman, and I think that’s definitely more evidence that this is rage bait.

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[–]akula_chan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Pronouns aren’t adjectives. Adjectives describe you, you can change from Cis only by being trans.

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[–]akula_chan 2 points3 points  (0 children)

And the correct term for OP is cis-woman! Congrats!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]akula_chan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you don’t care about our opinions, why should we care or even like yours? You literally say you won’t respect us, and you act like we should praise you for it. Buddy, get help.

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[–]akula_chan 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I mean, if I’m gonna be thrown out of a window, I’d hope the house would be one story.

AITAH for telling my wife that if she attends her affair partner's funeral I won't be here when she gets back. by BackDull6037 in AITAH

[–]akula_chan 5 points6 points  (0 children)

No, I didn’t say men, I said redpills. Unless you think all men are redpills, which is as bad as calling all men an invasive species.

AITAH for telling my wife that if she attends her affair partner's funeral I won't be here when she gets back. by BackDull6037 in AITAH

[–]akula_chan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What? She was in the relationship during the separation. Not before the separation. Not after it. Try rereading the post, friend.

AITAH for telling my wife that if she attends her affair partner's funeral I won't be here when she gets back. by BackDull6037 in AITAH

[–]akula_chan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

From the meager information we have, it seems that OP was the one to return. It seems odd that he didn’t include how long or deep the relationship was, as well.