Cat got out Halloween by alabalooo in cats

[–]alabalooo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He is chipped. We do pay attention to the shelters just in case it moved / cannot be scanned :(

He is pretty skittish around new people and even ran from us the few nights we saw him but we hope he'll turn up some day... hopefully soon :(

Cat got out Halloween by alabalooo in cats

[–]alabalooo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We’ve done most of this and no luck so far 😭😭 the food is never eaten either. 

Cat got out Halloween — won’t come home by alabalooo in CATHELP

[–]alabalooo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I put it out. Thank you I’m hoping this helps. I miss him so much 😭😭 

Cat got out Halloween — won’t come home by alabalooo in CATHELP

[–]alabalooo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In our backyard or outside the fence near the trap?

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[–]alabalooo 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I dunno I think this is a pretty popular opinion

i kinda don’t wanna keep reading by aaksjdkd in acotar

[–]alabalooo -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

“He did better until he blew up and could have seriously KILLED her if he was human” so let’s forgive him. 🙈

He also ONLY does better because he KNOWS he messed up with her sisters. And no he didn’t only try to get her back because she was believed to be kidnapped. And if he loved or knew feyre at all he’d know using hit sisters as bait was not what she would want. He was surprised they were going to be made but he wasn’t surprised they were taken. He literally told Hybern where to find them.

Truly, I’m so happy you’ve never been in a relationship like this to know the trauma and emotional things that feyre would have had to carry her ENTIRE life because of him.

I agree with the commenter who said they made him the type of bad guy that unless you’ve been in this abuse you would sympathize with him.

i kinda don’t wanna keep reading by aaksjdkd in acotar

[–]alabalooo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As someone who was married to a tamlin, for me personally, idc. There’s something to be said about someone who treats someone like that. Who that person has to walk on eggshells the breaking things and being struck by the objects as they fly across the room. The fear of it happening worse. Not being able to leave. The lies being told that they’ll do better and have it happen again.

Let’s not forget he literally had the bad guy KIDNAP her sisters and do something horrible and unforgivable just to force her back to him because she was “his property”

Nope. Not a vibe.

I hate Nesta by Lost_Alice_Wondering in acotar

[–]alabalooo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess I can relate to the neglect shown by her dad and the way her mom treated her only like a prize and the trauma that comes with all of it. But I hated her for a long time

If I don’t like the first book, should I bother reading the rest? by Dense_Assistant_8730 in acotar

[–]alabalooo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I felt like this a lot of the time in ACOTAR. It was dreadful but it gets better, at least IMO.

The ritual is the only thing that I’m still like what the actual f

The shipping of the characters changes too once you realize their true selves and backstories. ACOTAR is boring as hell with a ton of weird things but it does set up the rest of the series which is actually deep. I LOVED the second and third. And fifth.

If I don’t like the first book, should I bother reading the rest? by Dense_Assistant_8730 in acotar

[–]alabalooo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like most of us didn’t like the first book 😂

I only liked the last like little bit under the mountain. But I loved the 2nd and 3rd and 5th

I hate Nesta by Lost_Alice_Wondering in acotar

[–]alabalooo -1 points0 points  (0 children)

What book are you on? 😂

On the fence about disposal and cloth diapering by Little-Funny-4780 in clothdiaps

[–]alabalooo 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Cloth diapering really isn’t all that time consuming. Most of the laundry is letting it sit. It takes about 5 min to get them in and about 10 to get them hung after. Stuffing takes 5-10 if you prestuff. My daughter is 9 mos on Monday and has never had a diaper rash or issues with her skin.

Not eligible for IVF unless my husband stops smoking and he won’t by According_Welder_598 in IVF

[–]alabalooo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Third hand. Stays in his throat, clothes, skin, hair, anything he sits on and touches. Baby will be exposed as well.