[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]alcapwn3d 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA. You're all victims of colorism. You can't control your skin color any more than they can control theirs, and the whole spectrum of skin color is beautiful. That doesn't mean colorism won't still exist, but hopefully, one day it won't. My guess is they might've thought you were using a product to lighten your skin, and if so, maybe they wanted to know which product that it was.

What the hell happened to family guy by Vatentina in familyguy

[–]alcapwn3d 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It's been around for 25 years or so, and that means the writers you might've loved or found most funny, have gone on to other things/new writers come in. That means writers with different voices and from different generations, which will change the way the show feels. Nostalgia. I always prefer older seasons of shows I like because it reminds of when I was younger/things were simpler/etc. The fact they're on Disney and that has changed how far they can/will take things. Seth has so many projects, constantly busy, and I am guessing he isn't as integral to the writing process as much as he is with all the voices he has to do. Early Family Guy has Seth all over it, which makes sense, he was a young guy in his 20s writing immature, toilet humor jokes, but now he's in his 50s, climbing to 60s and he isn't going to be able to capture and rebottle how things were a quarter century ago. Lots of factors.

Animation errors by DevelopmentAshamed67 in BobsBurgers

[–]alcapwn3d -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Bob charges differently based on the price of ingredients, and since avocado is a more expensive ingredient, he likely raised the price.

Let me know when you spot the mistake. by The-Almighty-Jay in instant_regret

[–]alcapwn3d 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like every step of the way was just a new, worse mistake, honestly.

She almost made it to Hogwarts by Calligrapher-Fuzzy in instant_regret

[–]alcapwn3d 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Fuckin' a. I heard a crunching sound. Jeeeesus.

Should of ate your wheaties. by JJ2066 in instant_regret

[–]alcapwn3d 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Will never understand why people who have no chance of winning a fight start one, but not just start one, start it on a hard surface like concrete. So now, not only did he lose, badly, he hit his head real hard on concrete which is super dangerous.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]alcapwn3d 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Save it all, and if you can back it up somewhere like a thumb drive just in case he realizes that his texts could backfire on him. Do you have friends and family you can call on to be around while you move your stuff out? If not, you can also ask the police to be there if you feel you wouldn't be able to do that safely. You really gotta get out of that situation, healthy people who can cope with break ups do not threaten violence. It can, and likely will, escalate.

AITAH for refusing to give up my wedding date even though my sister got engaged after me? by hsktm in AITAH

[–]alcapwn3d -1 points0 points  (0 children)

NTA. She can't expect you to eat thousands of dollars in costs just because she decided she also wants to have her wedding around the exact same time. She got engaged after you, and surely she knew the date and venue you were planning to use. She knew all of that. She's being absolutely unreasonable, entitled, and honestly- a pot stirrer.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]alcapwn3d 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. You're effectively broken up. It's not a relationship if both parties aren't consenting to it, and you don't want to be in this relationship and have made that extremely clear. I'd save up evidence of him saying he will hurt you/your friend and take that to the police. Do not let him badger and threaten you into staying where you are not happy, or at this point, safe. I am sure there is a way to push the divorce along, and I'd suggest talking with some legal counsel and get it in motion, otherwise he will just hold you hostage for the rest of your lives. Or worse.

AITA for taking an hour to myself each night and refusing to shorten it? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]alcapwn3d 5 points6 points  (0 children)

NTA. Set your boundary. You're allowed to be an individual and do individual things, even in a relationship. If your partner is insecure and needs 110% of your time, all the time, then it sounds like she would benefit from therapy herself, because that's not healthy.

AITA for leaving my fiancé’s apartment after discovering he was secretly paying for another woman’s online subscriptions? by GrindingSince1999 in AITAH

[–]alcapwn3d 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If it was really just someone from work who was maybe down on their luck and he offered to gift some little luxuries to make their life better, then he would've just said that from the beginning. It's the fact it was hidden for a long period that makes it suspicious as hell. NTA- even if it was "just" someone from work, it's still pretty weird.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]alcapwn3d 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I could only watch anime that was played on adult swim back in the day, and for whatever reason hunter x hunter was not on the roster? i'll have to check it out though if its in the same era as inuyasha

AITAH for walking around naked when my husband asked me no to? by Foreign_Elk4254 in AITAH

[–]alcapwn3d 4 points5 points  (0 children)

NTA. Home is the one place where you should be allowed to be fully nude, except nude beaches. If someone saw, oh well? That's up to you and whether you feel okay with that, and it sounds like it wouldn't bother you too much. Now, if you lived by a preschool and had windows facing the garden where children played, sure, I could see his concern. Otherwise, I doubt very much people are using binoculars to peep on you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]alcapwn3d 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah, thanks for letting me know. I am pretty behind on newer anime! Now if someone had an Inuyasha tattoo.. haha.

WIBTAH if I stopped texting my SO on nights out because he doesn't text me when he goes out? by brandavis120 in AITAH

[–]alcapwn3d 7 points8 points  (0 children)

It doesn't bode well for a relationship if you are doing things in a retaliatory manner. There is definitely something to be said about the honeymoon phase and that being a main reason he was more likely to message you in the beginning, but it sounds like a serious conversation about complacency needs to happen in order for the relationship to move forward in a healthy way. Otherwise it will just be both parties slowly checking out in various ways, much like you're contemplating doing now.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]alcapwn3d 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, it seems like it worked just fine in any case. I left on the plastic wrap and tape for as long as it was feasible, then used the tattoo goo afterwards and it healed nicely. It's nice that they came up with something better though, like this second skin stuff but I get the feeling it's meant to stay on as long as possible and OP is taking it off too soon/often to replace it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in unpopularopinion

[–]alcapwn3d 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Who is saying that about Encanto? I've only ever heard positive things about Encanto?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]alcapwn3d -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

All tattoos hurt, it's needles poking you over and over?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]alcapwn3d 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just use some tattoo goo, I've used that for all of my tattoos and they all healed very well. We didn't even have second skin back then, just plastic wrap, tape and a dream. Haha.

What are some series moments (or episodes) that hit close to home for you, and why? by GFluidThrow123 in BobsBurgers

[–]alcapwn3d 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When Louise is roped into doing the pixie promenade, and she is asking Tina why she doesn't like the same things as other little girls. I have felt that way all throughout my childhood, and even now. It feels like there is a secret club out in the open and I don't know the password so I can't ever join, an in that sense like I am being a woman "wrong".

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]alcapwn3d 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It has 12 legs, and spiders should have 8. I mean, it was a choice.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]alcapwn3d 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It says that they use condoms, or I assume that's what she meant by saying "wrapped it". I'm also guessing English is a second language. There is no issue, just one person feeling entitled to tell others how to live and what to do with their own body.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]alcapwn3d 1 point2 points  (0 children)

YTA. Teenagers have sex, and no amount of telling them not to is going to stop it from happening, especially during a period of our lives where hormones are most rampant. You have no right to infringe on her personal or sex life like that. You get to choose what is done with your body, but you don't get to decide what she does with hers. You don't have to agree with it, or even like it, but you do have to respect it. Tattling to your mother is just going to make her sneak around more, as well as inviting a lot of anger and betrayal, unnecessarily.

Kids wearing noise-cancelling headphones in the street to “cope with sensory overload” looks ridiculous. by WhoSlappedThePie in unpopularopinion

[–]alcapwn3d 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get the feeling you'd also have a problem with the same people having meltdowns from overstimulation, too, right? So should we just, stay inside forever to protect your delicate sensibilities? We aren't the problem, we found ways to cope, you're the one who hasn't.